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Destiny and Free Will Column

Every other week since November 2003
by identical twin brothers Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo

Spiritually inclined, yet grounded, Scott and Stephen adhere to
ancient spiritual tenets, and expose New Age myths.

 

Words of Wisdom—Jackie Collins

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Jacqueline Jill Collins (October 4, 1937 – September 19, 2015) was an English romance novelist and actress. She relocated to Los Angeles in 1985 and spent most of her career there. She wrote 32 novels, all of which appeared on The New York Times Best Seller list, and have sold more than 500 million copies. Her older sister is Joan Collins.

Her first book, The World Is Full of Married Men in 1968, became a best-seller. Forty years later, she admitted she was a “school dropout” and “juvenile delinquent” when she was 15. She “never pretended to be a literary writer.”

After the publication of her first novel, romantic novelist Barbara Cartland called the book “nasty, filthy and disgusting,” and accused Collins of “creating every pervert in Britain”. The book was banned in Australia and South Africa, but the scandal boosted sales in the United States and the UK.

Below we list some words of wisdom from Jackie Collins.

“The biggest critics of my books are the people who never read them.”

“I’m a storyteller, I’m not a literary writer, and I don’t want to be a literary writer. People say to me, “Oh, when are you going to write something different?” What? I don’t want to write anything different. I’m writing relationships between people, all different colors, all different sizes, all different sexual orientations, and that’s what I want to do.”

“If you want to be a writer-stop talking about it and sit down and write!”

“If you wrote a page a day, at the end of the year you would have a book. Whether it’s any good or not is beside the point, but you would have a book, instead of just talking about it all the time.”

“I have this theory that people in Hollywood don’t read. They read ‘Vanity Fair’ and then consider themselves terribly well read. I think I can basically write about anybody without getting caught.” 

“Men are cheaters. Women are not to be trusted. And most people are dumb.”

“I write about real people in disguise. If anything, my characters are toned down-the truth is much more bizarre.”

“If you want to achieve your dreams, you must follow them, and the best way to follow them is not to think about wanting to be very rich, but to think about doing something that you really want to do.”

“Love does not appear with any warning signs. You fall into it as if pushed from a high diving board. No time to think about what’s happening. It’s inevitable. An event you can’t control. A crazy, heart-stopping, roller-coaster ride that just has to take its course.” 

“I really fall in love with my characters, even the bad ones. I love getting together with them. They tell me what to do; they take me on a wild and wonderful trip.”

“Ideas are all around me. If I wasn’t interested in them myself, I don’t think anyone else would be either.”

“I write synopses after the book is completed. I can’t write it beforehand, because I don’t know what the book’s about. I invent something for my publisher because he asks for one, but the final book ends up very differently.”

“Your whole life is ahead of you. Don’t you ever forget that.”

“Whatever you have a passion for, then you must do. If you want to write, write about something you know about.”

“My weakness is wearing too much leopard print.”

“I love London and Los Angeles equally. I was born and brought up London and then I went to Los Angeles as a teenager to stay with my sister Joan. So I feel I belong to both.”

“I wake up in the morning and I still have a passion for what I do, and I’ll be doing it when I’m 105, I’ll be scribbling away. If it was 100 years ago I’d be sitting by the campfire, saying, “Have I got a story to tell you.””

“I try not to bore my readers.”

“I don’t like being in one place too long. Five days just about does it for me because I have a very low threshold for boredom.”

“People are intrigued by fame, power and wealth and I think Hollywood is the only place where you get all three together.”

“The easier you make it look, the more difficult it is. Creating characters out of nothing, and making them interesting – and that’s another advice I would give to writers.”

“My books flow. People say they pick them up and they can’t put them down. It’s because when I’m writing them I pick my pen up and I cannot put my pen down.”

“If you want to have great sex, find a partner who really turns you on. Pills are merely props, and props can turn out to be a big drag.”

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Words of Wisdom—Arthur Schopenhauer

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Arthur Schopenhauer (February 22, 1788 – September 21, 1860) was a German philosopher best known for his 1818 work The World as Will and Representation. Often called the philosopher of pessimism, he developed a metaphysical system centered on the blind, striving “Will” as the underlying force of reality. His writings explore suffering, desire, art, compassion, and the human condition, drawing influences from Kant, Plato, and Eastern philosophy. Though largely ignored during his early career, Schopenhauer’s ideas later profoundly influenced thinkers such as Nietzsche, Freud, Einstein, and Wagner.

Friedrich Nietzsche, who was deeply shaped by Schopenhauer’s philosophy, wrote: “Schopenhauer’s thought was the first to strike me with its full force; it was like a thunderbolt.”

Below, we list some words of wisdom from Schopenhauer, drawn from his major works including The World as Will and Representation, Parerga and Paralipomena, and Counsels and Maxims.

“Talent hits a target no one else can hit. Genius hits a target no one else can see.”

“Compassion is the basis of morality.”

“A man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.”

“Mostly it is loss which teaches us about the worth of things.”

“All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.”

“Life swings like a pendulum backward and forward between pain and boredom.”

“The greatest of follies is to sacrifice health for any other kind of happiness.”

“Each day is a little life: every waking and rising a little birth, every fresh morning a little youth, every going to rest and sleep a little death.”

“It is difficult to find happiness within oneself, but it is impossible to find it anywhere else.”

“Boundless compassion for all living beings is the surest and most certain guarantee of pure moral conduct.”

“Life is never beautiful, but only the pictures of life are so in the transfiguring mirror of art or poetry.”

“We seldom think of what we have but always of what we lack.”

“Every parting gives a foretaste of death, every reunion a hint of the resurrection.”

“The two foes of human happiness are pain and boredom.”

“Human life must be some kind of mistake.”

“Reading is merely a surrogate for thinking for yourself; it means letting someone else direct your thoughts.”

“To overcome difficulties is to experience the full delight of existence.”

“The safest way of not being very miserable is not to expect to be very happy.”

“A sense of humor is the only divine quality of man.”

“Hatred is a thing of the heart, contempt a thing of the head.”

“What people commonly call fate is mostly their own stupidity.”

“After your death you will be what you were before your birth.”

“In early youth, as we contemplate our coming life, we are like children in a theater before the curtain is raised, sitting there in high spirits and eagerly waiting for the play to begin.”

“Change alone is eternal, perpetual, immortal.”

“The fundament upon which all our knowledge and learning rests is the inexplicable.”

“Do not shorten the morning by getting up late, or waste it in unworthy occupations or in talk; look upon it as the quintessence of life, as to a certain extent sacred.”

“Truth that is naked is the most beautiful, and the simpler its expression the deeper is the impression it makes.”

“Life is short and truth works far and lives long: let us speak the truth.”

“The world is my representation.”


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Words of Wisdom—Tennessee Williams

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Thomas Lanier Williams III (March 26th, 1911 – February 25th, 1983), known by his pen name Tennessee Williams, was an American playwright and screenwriter. He is considered one of the foremost playwrights of 20th-century American drama.

At age 33 Williams became famous with the success of The Glass Menagerie (1944) in New York City. It was the first of several successes, including A Streetcar Named Desire (1947), Cat on a Hot Tin Roof (1955), Sweet Bird of Youth (1959), and The Night of the Iguana (1961). In 1979, four years before his death, he was inducted into the American Theater Hall of Fame.

Below we list words of wisdom from Tennessee Williams.

“You can be young without money but you can’t be old without it.” 

“Don’t you think there is always something unspoken between two people?” 

“Living with someone you love can be lonelier than living entirely alone, if the one that you love doesn’t love you.”

“Success and failure are equally disastrous.”

“Nobody sees anybody truly, but all through the flaws of their own ego.”  

“Physical beauty is passing – a transitory possession – but beauty of the mind, richness of the spirit, tenderness of the heart – I have all these things – aren’t taken away but grow! Increase with the years!”

“Not facing a fire doesn’t put it out.” 

“Friends are God’s way of apologizing to us for our families” 

“If you can’t be yourself, what’s the point of being anyone else?”

“There comes a time when you look into the mirror and you realize that what you see is all that you will ever be. And then you accept it. Or you kill yourself. Or you stop looking in mirrors.” 

“All cruel people describe themselves as paragons of frankness.” 

“The object of art is to make eternal the desperately fleeting moment.” 

“If I got rid of my demons, I’d lose my angels.” 

“There are no ‘good’ or ‘bad’ people. Some are a little better or a little worse, but all are activated more by misunderstanding than malice. A blindness to what is going on in each other’s hearts.” 

“There is a time for departure even when there’s no certain place to go.” 

“To change is to live, to live is to change, and not to change is to die.” 

“Life is all memory, except for the one present moment that goes by you so quickly you hardly catch it going.”

“The only thing worse than a liar is a liar that’s also a hypocrite!” 

“I don’t want realism. I want magic!” 

“What is straight? A line can be straight, or a street, but the human heart, oh, no, it’s curved like a road through mountains.” 

“Don’t look forward to the day you stop suffering, because when it comes you’ll know you’re dead.” 

“The only unforgivable sin is deliberate cruelty.” 

“Life is an unanswered question, but let’s still believe in the dignity and importance of the question.” 

“Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.”

“In memory everything seems to happen to music.” 

“Revolution only needs good dreamers who remember their dreams.”

“Enthusiasm is the most important thing in life.” 

“The scene is memory and is therefore nonrealistic. Memory takes a lot of poetic license. It omits some details; others are exaggerated, according to the emotional value of the articles it touches, for memory is seated predominantly in the heart.” 

“Vanity, fear, desire, competition – all such distortions within our own egos – condition our vision of those in relation to us. Add to those distortions to our own egos the corresponding distortions in the egos of others, and you see how cloudy the glass must become through which we look at each other.” 

“America has only three cities: New York, San Francisco, and New Orleans. Everywhere else is Cleveland.” 

“We are all sentenced to solitary confinement inside our own skins, for life.” 

“Caged birds accept each other, but flight is what they long for.” 

“Snatching the eternal out of the desperately fleeting is the great magic trick of human existence.” 

“We lose the magic whenever we stop telling our story and begin to wonder how we’re doing, if we’re selling it, if the listener likes us. Just tell the story and go on to the next one. All of us are full of stories the world might want to hear.” 

“I don’t believe in ‘original sin.’ I don’t believe in ‘guilt.’ I don’t believe in villains or heroes – only right or wrong ways that individuals have taken, not by choice but by necessity or by certain still-uncomprehended influences in themselves, their circumstances, and their antecedents. This is so simple I’m ashamed to say it, but I’m sure it’s true. In fact, I would bet my life on it! And that’s why I don’t understand why our propaganda machines are always trying to teach us, to persuade us, to hate and fear other people on the same little world that we live in.”

“I have found it easier to identify with the characters who verge upon hysteria, who were frightened of life, who were desperate to reach out to another person. But these seemingly fragile people are the strong people really.” 


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Words of Wisdom—Leonard Bernstein

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Leonard Bernstein (August 25, 1918 – October 14, 1990) was an American conductor, composer, pianist, music educator, and author. One of the most influential figures in 20th-century classical music, he served as music director of the New York Philharmonic from 1958 to 1969, composed the score for West Side Story, and created groundbreaking works such as Candide, Chichester Psalms, and his three symphonies. Through his Young People’s Concerts on television, lectures, and books like The Joy of Music, Bernstein brought classical music to millions, making it accessible and exciting to new generations.

The composer Aaron Copland, Bernstein’s mentor, said of him: “Lenny is the ideal teacher—his enthusiasm is contagious, his knowledge profound, and his love for music boundless.” Below, we list some words of wisdom from Leonard Bernstein, drawn from his lectures, interviews, writings, and public statements.

“To me, every hour of the day and night is an unspeakably perfect miracle.”

“I think that what you’ve got to do is discover the essential truth of the situation, and make a judgment about it.”

“The gift of creativity is that it is a gift to others as well as to oneself.”

“To achieve great things, two things are needed: a plan, and not quite enough time.”

“The best way to know a thing is to be part of it.”

“This will be our reply to violence: to make music more intensely, more beautifully, more devotedly than ever before.”

“Music can name the unnameable and communicate the unknowable.”

“The only way to avoid being unhappy is to close one’s eyes to reality—but that is the coward’s way.”

“Faith is not certainty; it is the courage to live with uncertainty.”

“The only way I have of knowing I’ve done any good is by being told.”

“A liberal is a conservative who has been arrested. A conservative is a liberal who has been mugged.”

“Any great work of art … revives and readapts time and space, and the measure of its success is the extent to which it makes you an inhabitant of that world—the extent to which it invites you in and lets you breathe its strange, special air.”

“Life without music is unthinkable. Life without music is academic. That is why my contact with music is a total embrace.”

“This joy of discovery is one of the things that makes music so exciting.”

“The point of all this is that we are living in a time of tremendous change, and the only way to survive is to be open to change.”

“Technique is communication: the two words are synonymous in conductors.”

“A work of art does not answer questions, it provokes them; and its essential meaning is in the tension between the contradictory answers.”

“Music … can name the unnameable and communicate the unknowable.”

“Ambiguity is the very essence of an artist.”

“This is the moment of truth for the artist: when he must decide whether to go on or to stop.”

“Music, of all the arts, stands in a special region, unencumbered with ideas, unburdened by the need to explain itself.”

“In music, everything must be at once clear and mysterious.”

“The only honest art is that which is created out of necessity.”

“Any composer’s writing is autobiographical.”

“Art always mirrors the society in which it is created.”

“Every composer knows the anguish and despair occasioned by forgetting ideas which one had no time to write down.”

“The joy and suffering of those who create are the same joy and suffering of those who listen.”

“Music is the one form of communication that can reach everyone, regardless of language or culture.”


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Words of Wisdom—Truman Capote

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Truman Capote (September 30th, 1924 – August 25th, 1984) was an American novelist, screenwriter, playwright, and actor. Several of his novels and plays are literary classics.

He was planning to become a writer at eight years old and began his professional career writing short stories. The critical success of “Miriam” in 1945 attracted the attention of Random House publisher. He achieved widespread acclaim with Breakfast at Tiffany’s and the true crime novel In Cold Blood (1966). Capote spent six years writing the latter.

Below we list some words of wisdom by Truman Capote.

“Everybody has to feel superior to somebody,” she said. “But it’s customary to present a little proof before you take the privilege.”

“Life is difficult enough without Meryl Streep movies.”

“It’s a scientific fact that if you stay in California you lose one point of your IQ every year.”

“You can’t blame a writer for what the characters say.”

“Most people don’t find their creativity. There are more unsung geniuses that don’t even know they have great talent.”

“Anyone who ever gave you confidence, you owe them a lot.”

“Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor.”

“All human life has its seasons and cycles, and no one’s personal chaos can be permanent. Winter, after all, gives way to spring and summer, though sometimes when branches stay dark and the earth cracks with ice, one thinks they will never come, that spring, and that summer, but they do, and always.”

“I don’t care what anybody says about me as long as it isn’t true.”

“The brain may take advice, but not the heart.”

“Life is a moderately good play with a badly written third act.”

“There is only one unpardonable sin–deliberate cruelty. All else can be forgiven.”

“A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That’s why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet.”

“A man who doesn’t dream is like a man who doesn’t sweat. He stores up a lot of poison.”

“If you weren’t here, if you could be anywhere you wanted to be, doing anything you wanted to do, where would you be and what would you be doing?”

“Writing has laws of perspective, of light and shade just as painting does, or music. If you are born knowing them, fine. If not, learn them. Then rearrange the rules to suit yourself.”

“The problem with living outside the law is that you no longer have its protection.”

“Actually, I think friendship and love are exactly the same thing.”

“Have you never heard what the wise men say: all of the future exists in the past.”

“I remember things the way they should have been.”

“Imagination, of course, can open any door – turn the key and let terror walk right in.”

“He loved her, he loved her, and until he’d loved her she had never minded being alone.”

“You call yourself a free spirit, a “wild thing,” and you’re terrified somebody’s gonna stick you in a cage. Well baby, you’re already in that cage. You built it yourself. And it’s not bounded in the west by Tulip, Texas, or in the east by Somali-land. It’s wherever you go. Because no matter where you run, you just end up running into yourself.”

“Sometimes when I think how good my book can be, I can hardly breathe.”

“Past certain ages or certain wisdoms it is very difficult to look with wonder; it is best done when one is a child; after that, and if you are lucky, you will find a bridge of childhood and walk across it.”

“Are the dead as lonesome as the living?”

“Great fury, like great whisky, requires long fermentation.”

“I was terribly sure trees and flowers were the same as birds or people. That they thought things and talked among themselves. And we could hear them if we really tried. It was just a matter of emptying your head of all other sounds. Being very quiet and listening very hard. Sometimes I still believe that. But one can never get quiet enough.”

“To me, the greatest pleasure of writing is not what it’s about, but the inner music that words make.”

“It takes a lot of bad writing to get to a little good writing.”

“Finishing a book is just like you took a child out in the back yard and shot it.”

“There were hints of sunrise on the rim of the sky, yet it was still dark, and the traces of morning color were like goldfish swimming in ink.”

“When I am writing, I try to do it five hours a day but I spend about two of those just fooling around.”

“The better the actor, the more stupid he is.”

“How do I look so young? Quite simple: a complete vegetable diet, 12 hours sleep a night, and lots and lots of make-up.”

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Words of Wisdom—Paul Cézanne

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Paul Cézanne (January 19, 1839 – October 22, 1906) was a French artist and Post-Impressionist painter whose work laid the foundations of 20th-century abstract art and modern painting. Often called the “father of modern art,” Cézanne bridged Impressionism and Cubism through his innovative use of color, form, and structure. His most famous series include Mont Sainte-Victoire landscapes, still lifes with apples, and portraits of bathers. Largely unrecognized during much of his life, his persistent exploration of perception and geometry profoundly influenced artists such as Picasso, Matisse, and Braque.

Pablo Picasso famously declared, “Cézanne is the father of us all.”

Below, we list some words of wisdom from Cézanne, drawn from his letters, conversations, and recorded statements.

“The truth is in nature, and I shall prove it.”

“Genius is the ability to renew one’s emotions in daily experience.”

“Doubt is the beginning, not the end, of knowledge.”

“Treat nature by means of the cylinder, the sphere and the cone.”

“Keep good company, read good books, live in the light of the mind.”

“I want to make of impressionism something solid and durable, like the art of the museums.”

“The painter must enclose himself within his work; he must respond not with words, but with paintings.”

“One had to see nature as no one had seen it before.”

“Painting from nature is not copying the object; it is realizing one’s sensations.”

“A work of art which did not begin in emotion is not art.”

“An optical impression is presented to us as an enigma.”

“Art is a harmony parallel with nature.”

“The artist must see all things as if he were seeing them for the first time.”

“I am more a primitive of my art than a master.”

“The secret of drawing is to correct constantly.”

“I am always making discoveries, either of color or form.”

“The landscape thinks itself in me, I am its consciousness.”

“Painting is damned difficult — you always think you’ve got it, but you haven’t.”

“I paint as if some blind man was looking over my shoulder.”

“The most seductive thing about art is the personality of the artist.”

“One must never let the brush become more important than the painting.”

“The contour eludes me.”

“I owe you the truth in painting, and I will tell it to you.”

“I am the primitive of the way I have taken.”

“One should not say that I have painted apples, but that I have painted red.”

“Painting means thinking with your brush.”

“The artist must create a spark before he can make a fire and before art is born, the artist must be ready to be consumed by the fire of his own creation.”

“Optics, that is to say the knowledge of the general effect of light, governs everything.”

“I have sworn to die painting.”

“The most important thing in painting is to find your own walk.”

“When I judge art, I take my painting and put it next to a God-made object like a tree or flower. If it clashes, it is not art.”

“For an Impressionist to paint from nature is not to paint the subject, but to realize sensations.”

“We live in a rainbow of chaos.”

“Right now a moment of time is passing by! Capture its reality in paint!”

“Everything we see falls apart, vanishes. Nature is always the same, but nothing in her that appears to us lasts. Our art must render the thrill of her permanence.”

“Shadow is a colour as light is, but less brilliant; light and shadow are only the relation of two tones.”

“An art which isn’t based on feeling isn’t an art at all.”

“The day is coming when a single carrot, freshly observed, will set off a revolution.”

“There are two things in the painter, the eye and the mind; each of them should aid the other.”

“I am progressing very slowly, for nature reveals herself to me in very complex forms; and the progress needed is incessant.”

“Pure drawing is an abstraction. Drawing and colour are not distinct; everything in nature is coloured.”

“To my mind one does not put oneself in place of the past, one only adds a new link.”

“The awareness of our own strength makes us modest.”

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Words of Wisdom—Nelle Harper Lee

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Nelle Harper Lee (April 28th, 1926 – February 19th, 2016) was an American writer whose novel To Kill a Mockingbird won the 1961 Pulitzer Prize and became a classic. She was good friends with Truman Capote and helped with his research for the book In Cold Blood.

To Kill a Mockingbird is loosely based on her experiences growing up in Monroeville, Alabama. The novel deals with race and class in the Deep South during the 1930s, as perceived through the eyes of two children.

Lee received many accolades and honorary degrees for her contribution to literature.

Below we list some words of wisdom by Nelle Harper Lee.

“I never expected any sort of success with Mockingbird. I was hoping for a quick and merciful death at the hands of the reviewers, but at the same time I sort of hoped someone would like it enough to give me encouragement. Public encouragement. I hoped for a little, as I said, but I got rather a whole lot, and in some ways this was just about as frightening as the quick, merciful death I’d expected.”— Harper Lee, quoted in Newquist, 1964

“People generally see what they look for, and hear what they listen for.”

“You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view.”

“The one thing that doesn’t abide by majority rule is a person’s conscience.”

“As you grow up, always tell the truth, do no harm to others, and don’t think you are the most important being on earth. Rich or poor, you then can look anyone in the eye and say, ‘I’m probably no better than you, but I’m certainly your equal.”

“Real courage is when you know you’re licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what.”

“Prejudice, a dirty word, and faith, a clean one, have something in common: they both begin where reason ends.”

“Mockingbirds don’t do one thing but make music for us to enjoy. They don’t eat up people’s gardens, don’t nest in corncribs, they don’t do one thing but sing their hearts out for us. That’s why it’s a sin to kill a mockingbird.”

“A man can condemn his enemies, but it’s wiser to know them.”

“It’s not necessary to tell all you know. It’s not ladylike–in the second place, folks don’t like to have somebody around knowing more than they do.”

“Don’t you study about other folks’ business till you take care of your own.”

“You see they could never, never understand that I live like I do because that’s the way I want to live.”

“Everybody’s gotta learn, nobody’s born knowing.”

“Sometimes the Bible in the hand of one man is worse than a whisky bottle in the hand of another… There are just some kind of men who – who’re so busy worrying about the next world they’ve never learned to live in this one, and you can look down the street and see the results.”

“Now, 75 years later in an abundant society where people have laptops, cell phones, iPods, and minds like empty rooms, I still plod along with books. Instant information is not for me. I prefer to search library stacks because when I work to learn something, I remember it. And, Oprah, can you imagine curling up in bed to read a computer? Weeping for Anna Karenina and being terrified by Hannibal Lecter, entering the heart of darkness with Mistah Kurtz, having Holden Caulfield ring you up — some things should happen on soft pages, not cold metal.”

“Things are always better in the morning.”

“The book to read is not the one which thinks for you, but the one which makes you think. No book in the world equals the Bible for that.”

“It’s better to be silent than to be a fool.”

“Things are never as bad as they seem.”

“Try fighting with your head for a change… it’s a good one, even if it does resist learning.”

“People in their right minds never take pride in their talents.”

“There are some men in this world who are born to do our unpleasant jobs for us. Your father’s one of them.”

“We’re paying the highest tribute you can pay a man. We trust him to do right. It’s that simple.”

“I would advise anyone who aspires to a writing career that before developing his talent he would be wise to develop a thick hide.”

“Until I feared I would lose it, I never loved to read. One does not love breathing.”

“Atticus told me to delete the adjectives and I’d have the facts.”

“Are you proud of yourself tonight that you have insulted a total stranger whose circumstances you know nothing about?”

“With him, life was routine; without him, life was unbearable.”

“There’s no substitute for the love of language, for the beauty of an English sentence. There’s no substitute for struggling, if a struggle is needed, to make an English sentence as beautiful as it should be.”

“You rarely win, but sometimes you do.”

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Words of Wisdom—Vincent van Gogh

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Vincent van Gogh (March 30, 1853 – July 29, 1890) was a Dutch Post-Impressionist painter who became one of the most influential figures in Western art. Though he produced over 2,000 artworks, including iconic pieces like The Starry Night, Sunflowers, and Irises, he achieved little recognition during his lifetime. His letters, especially those to his brother Theo, reveal profound reflections on art, life, nature, and the human soul. Van Gogh’s passionate and innovative use of color and brushwork transformed painting, leaving a lasting legacy.

Artist Pablo Picasso once said of him, “Van Gogh was a painter who painted not what he saw, but what he felt.”

Below, we list some words of wisdom from Van Gogh, drawn from his letters and writings.

“What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything?”

“If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.”

“Success is sometimes the outcome of a whole string of failures.”

“Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.”

“I put my heart and soul into my work, and I have lost my mind in the process.”

“I often think that the night is more alive and more richly colored than the day.”

“I am seeking, I am striving, I am in it with all my heart.”

“Normality is a paved road: It’s comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it.”

“I dream my painting and I paint my dream.”

“The way to know life is to love many things.”

“I would rather die of passion than of boredom.”

“Be clearly aware of the stars and infinity on high. Then life seems almost enchanted after all.”

“Art is to console those who are broken by life.”

“For my part I know nothing with any certainty, but the sight of the stars makes me dream.”

“The heart of man is very much like the sea, it has its storms, it has its tides and in its depths it has its pearls too.”

“I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to love people.”

“Paintings have a life of their own that derives from the painter’s soul.”

“What color is in a picture, enthusiasm is in life.”

“I am always doing what I cannot do yet, in order to learn how to do it.”

“The fishermen know that the sea is dangerous and the storm terrible, but they have never found these dangers sufficient reason for remaining ashore.”

“One must work and dare if one really wants to live.”

“Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much.”

“There is peace even in the storm.”

“If you truly love nature, you will find beauty everywhere.”

“The only time I feel alive is when I’m painting.”

“Exaggerate the essential, leave the obvious vague.”

“I try more and more to be myself, caring relatively little whether people approve or disapprove.”

“Close friends are truly life’s treasures. Sometimes they know us better than we know ourselves.”

“Though I am often in the depths of misery, there is still calmness, pure harmony and melody within me.”

“A good picture is equivalent to a good deed.”

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Words of Wisdom—F. Scott Fitzgerald

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Francis Scott Key Fitzgerald (September 24th, 1896 – December 21st, 1940), known as F. Scott Fitzgerald or Scott Fitzgerald, was an American novelist. He is most known for his novels about the excess of the Jazz Age. 

When Fitzgerald died, he and the critics who knew his work thought it was a failure. His New York Times obituary deemed his work forever tied to an era “when gin was the national drink and sex the national obsession”.

Within a year after his death, Edmund Wilson finished Fitzgerald’s incomplete fifth novel The Last Tycoon using Fitzgerald’s notes. He also included The Great Gatsby within the edition. The Great Gatsby gained momentum when it was distributed free to American soldiers serving overseas. 

By 1960, thirty-five years after the novel’s original publication, it was selling 100,000 copies per year, and The New York Times editorialist called it a masterwork of American literature. By the 21st century, The Great Gatsby had sold millions of copies, and it’s now required reading in many high school and college classes.

Below we list words of wisdom from F. Scott Fitzgerald.

“The greatest profound pain is caused by, and is the result of our own illusions, fantasies and dreams.”

“For what it’s worth, it’s never too late to be whoever you want to be. I hope you live a life you’re proud of and if you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start over.”

“To be kind is more important than to be right. Many times, what people need is not a brilliant mind that speaks but a special heart that listens.”

“She was beautiful, but not like those girls in the magazines. She was beautiful, for the way she thought. She was beautiful, for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved. She was beautiful, for her ability to make other people smile, even if she was sad. No, she wasn’t beautiful for something as temporary as her looks. She was beautiful, deep down to her soul. She is beautiful.”

“The world only exists in your eyes. You can make it as big or as small as you want.”

“Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat.”

“You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and most beautiful person I have ever known—and even that is an understatement.”

“And in the end, we were all just humans…Drunk on the idea that love, only love, could heal our brokenness.”

“Intelligence is measured by a person’s ability to see validity within both sides of contradicting arguments.”

“Before you criticize others, remember, they may not have had the same opportunities in life as you have had.”

“…the test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function. One should, for example, be able to see that things are hopeless and yet be determined to make them otherwise. This philosophy fitted on to my early adult life, when I saw the improbable, the implausible, often the “impossible,” come true.”

“Suddenly she realized that what she was regretting was not the lost past but the lost future, not what had not been but what would never be.”

“It was only a sunny smile, and little it cost in the giving, but like morning light it scattered the night and made the day worth living.”

“The loneliest moment in someone’s life is when they are watching their whole world fall apart, and all they can do is stare blankly.”

“In a real dark night of the soul, it is always three o’clock in the morning, day after day.”

“I never blame failure – there are too many complicated situations in life – but I am absolutely merciless toward lack of effort.”

“There are all kinds of love in this world but never the same love twice.”

“No matter how low you go, there’s always an unexplored basement.”

“Courage to me means ploughing through that dull gray mist that comes down on life-not only overriding people and circumstances but overriding the bleakness of living. A sort of insistence on the value of life and the worth of transient things…My courage is faith-faith in the eternal resilience of me-that joy’ll come back, and hope and spontaneity. And I feel that till it does, I’ve got to keep my lips shut and my chin high, and my eyes wide.”

“Either you think, or else others have to think for you and take power from you, pervert and discipline your natural tastes, civilize and sterilize you.”

“One should, for example, be able to see that things are hopeless and yet be determined to make them otherwise.”

“Too much of anything is bad, but too much Champagne is just right.”

“Don’t forget who you are and where you come from.”

“Experience is the name so many people give to their mistakes.”

“You’re a slave, a bound helpless slave to one thing in the world, your imagination.”

“Tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther.”

“Life is essentially a cheat and its conditions are those of defeat; the redeeming things are not happiness and pleasure but the deeper satisfactions that come out of struggle.”

“Vitality shows in not only the ability to persist but the ability to start over.”

“Life is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel. Show me a hero and I will write you a tragedy.”

“It is not life that’s complicated, it’s the struggle to guide and control life.”

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Words of Wisdom—Salvador Dalí

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Salvador Dalí (May 11, 1904 – January 23, 1989) was a Spanish surrealist artist renowned for his technical brilliance, flamboyant personality, and dreamlike, often shocking imagery. His most famous works include The Persistence of Memory, Christ of Saint John of the Cross, and The Temptation of Saint Anthony. A master painter, sculptor, filmmaker, and writer, Dalí turned his entire life into a work of art, blending genius with provocation and forever expanding the boundaries of imagination.

André Breton, founder of Surrealism, once declared (before their bitter split), “Dalí is surrealism itself.”

Below, we list some unforgettable words of wisdom from Dalí, drawn from his books, interviews, and public declarations.

“Have no fear of perfection—you’ll never reach it.”

“A true artist is not one who is inspired, but one who inspires others.”

“The thermometer of success is merely the jealousy of the malcontents.”

“I don’t do drugs. I am drugs.”

“Surrealism is destructive, but it destroys only what it considers to be shackles limiting our vision.”

“Intelligence without ambition is a bird without wings.”

“At the age of six I wanted to be a cook. At seven I wanted to be Napoleon. And my ambition has been growing steadily ever since.”

“Give me two hours a day of activity, and I’ll take the other twenty-two in dreams.”

“The secret of my influence has always been that it remained secret.”

“Those who do not want to imitate anything, produce nothing.”

“Drawing is the honesty of the art. There is no possibility of cheating: it is either good or bad.”

“Every morning upon awakening, I experience a supreme pleasure: that of being Salvador Dalí, and I ask myself, wonderstruck, what prodigious thing will he do today, this Salvador Dalí.”

“Mistakes are almost always of a sacred nature. Never try to correct them.”

“I am not strange. I am just not normal.”

“The desire to survive and the fear of death are artistic sentiments.”

“An elegant woman is a woman who despises you and has no hair under her arms.”

“Wars have never hurt anybody except the people who die.”

“Let my enemies devour each other.”

“People love mystery, and that is why they love my paintings.”

“There are some days when I think I’m going to die from an overdose of satisfaction.”

“Painting is an infinitely minute part of my personality.”

“Progressive art can assist people to learn not only about the objective forces at work in the society in which they live, but also about the intensely subjective and personal forces within themselves.”

“I do not paint a portrait to look like the subject, rather does the person grow to look like his portrait.”

“Beauty should be edible, or not at all.”

“The first man to compare the cheeks of a young woman to a rose was obviously a poet; the first to repeat it was possibly an idiot.”

“What is important is to spread confusion, not eliminate it.”

“Take me, I am the drug; take me, I am hallucinogenic.”

“Since I don’t smoke, I decided to grow a mustache—it is better for the health.”

“Genius has to pass through the madman’s throat.”

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