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Numerology and Relationship Styles Part I

In ancient times, more than two thousand years ago, mystics recognized that numbers symbolize qualities as well as quantities.

Number mysticism, otherwise known today as numerology, is one of the most popular forms of divination used to discern personality, compatibility, and personal timing.

To the skeptics, we don’t believe in the type of numerology you’ve been exposed to either, what one finds through a cursory search on the Internet for Numerology. A single number represents nobody’s character.

Everybody’s unique energy is symbolized by multiple factors forming patterns in the natal and timing charts.

Ideally, each root number one through nine, and clusters of numbers, would be perfectly balanced in the charts. But the over-balanced and under-balanced forms are much more common; this truth represents personality red flags and challenging life circumstances. Every single person has his or her distinct tough parts in life to work through—so it goes in each lifetime until you get it right.

Associating the day of the month of birth with personality traits is a widespread form of modern numerology, though we recommend using multiple factors instead of only one. The symbolism of any single factor is supported or mitigated by the energy of the other hundreds within the personality and timing charts.

A caveat regarding single-factor readings includes those rare individuals who are capable of employing only a handful or even a single factor, such as the day of the month of birth, as touchstones to consistently glean character, compatibility and, or personal timing truths.

Personifying extreme over-balanced or under-balanced forms of numbers helps to understand the related energies; below we highlight relationship styles of each of the root numbers one through nine.

1:
Being a very masculine number, number one is known for drive and accomplishment, and that energy squashes romance. Little time remains for love after the one spends all day working on his or her goals. Once in a relationship, his or her partner may notice a lack of affection and endearments from the one.

The one just isn’t geared to that, and shows his love through other ways, such as sharing the abundance for which he worked hard.

2:
Two is the most considerate, thoughtful, and partnership oriented of all the root numbers. You’ll get plenty of affection from the two, but you may get tired of his or her hyper-sensitivity. In extreme cases, two can be the most deceitful of numbers. But if you’ve ever wanted someone who can wear two different hats, play two different roles well such as wife and mother, or be bi-sexual, two is ideal. Nobody beats two in a contest to possess a natural dual nature, which can be in a constructive, favorable manner, or a sinister, despicable way.

3:
Lively communication, laughter, and fun are hallmarks of the three. But he or she is also manic-depressive and volatile. You’ll have fun with three while it lasts, but you may tire of his or her emotional ups and downs. Three is unbeatable as a musician or entertainer, yet he’s the most superficial of all root numbers. Don’t expect meaningful, deep conversations with the three. Do expect a good time.

4:
Four is the most dependable root number, and you may like that he or she is one of the more physical numbers too. A bit crude at times, yet practical and efficient, four gets the job done. Work, family, and his or her relationship are stable. Being the most rigid of all root numbers, don’t push four to be unconventional and adventurous. He or she is the rock that people can count on, yet boredom and monotony is common.

5:
Five is sexy, charismatic, adventurous, and unorthodox. But he or she is here today and gone tomorrow. Those who have a lot of five in their charts become depressed in traditional, long-term relationships. They need newness and adventure. Five is the least monogamous of all root numbers, but he or she is a great lover, and can relate to almost everyone. A chameleon, yet a zebra doesn’t change his or her stripes, so don’t expect the five to play the role of traditional romantic partner.

6:
Six is the most geared toward traditional romantic partnerships. You can count on six for romance and an appealing marriage, unless six gets carried away with romantic idealism, his or her fatal flaw. “Our partnership is supposed to be like this….” says the six. Wrong, your partnership is the way it is and you, Mr. Six, need to accept it as it is. Accepting what he or she can’t change is tough for six. The perfectly balanced form of six is acceptance of how things are, without resentment. Unfortunately, much more often than not six is over or under-balanced and just won’t accept how things are in the relationship, symbolized, in part, by his or her distorted idealism.

7:
Seven isn’t geared toward relationships, unless you consider the relationship seven has with angels, invisible spirits, and those on the other side. ”Earth to seven!” you say to him or her, and it’s often appropriate. He or she seems physically here, but mentally in outer space. Seven avoids superficial small talk. One good thing about seven as a partner is that you’ll have some very deep, meaningful conversations, as long as you don’t try to encourage the seven to express herself emotionally. Repression is common. It’s not like seven doesn’t like you as a partner, it’s just that affection and closeness is uncomfortable for the seven.

8:
Eight is the most materially and financially inclined root number, so it makes sense that you may enjoy the finer things in life with eight. Eight likes status too. Just don’t expect a close romantic connection. Eight can be harsh, and may like things rough in the bedroom. Divorce is commonly expensive for eight, and eights can be the biggest opportunists when it comes to marrying well. Eight can be a bully, but the wise eight is a master of the balanced application of power and influence.

9:
Nine is a lovely romantic partner, yet he or she is typically without convictions. For example, his or her spiritual beliefs will tend to be whatever feels best at the moment. Sometimes nine has integrity problems, but his or her heart is of gold more often than not. If ever you want a partner who will be open-minded to the idea of an open relationship, nine is your guy or gal. Nine possesses unconditional love in abundance and makes a good father or mother, but drinking too much is common among those with excess nine energy.

Number symbolism is a fascinating way to learn about human character and timing. Like any discipline, it takes time to learn the basics, but once you do it’s an invaluable skill and leads to compassion and understanding.

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Hidden Factors That Form Human Compatibility

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You’ve been lied to about what makes two people compatible. As long as two people enjoy mutual physical attraction and share basic likes such as baseball games and pizza, and dislikes such as cold weather, they are compatible, right? Wrong.

Isn’t compatibility just a matter of a couple working hard to make their differences bearable? Nope. Real compatibility isn’t a choice. Patience and understanding don’t cancel out innate strife.

Our long-term findings show that innate compatibility isn’t something you make, but something two people naturally possess, or not.

Below we list six factors that form human compatibility.

1. Personality red flags, otherwise known as subconscious fears and defenses, such as resentment, domineering tendencies, anger, dishonesty, and scores of others can break even the most harmonious bond. You won’t identify these through personality self-tests, since everyone is on their best behavior during these evaluations. Handwriting analysis is our favorite way to identify personality challenges and strengths.

2. Physical attraction helps compatibility, and you need chemistry along with it. Chemistry is that special something that transcends physical magnetism. You can be physically attracted to someone, yet be repulsed by him or her at the same time. This is more easily exemplified as you interact in person, versus seeing a photo of the individual.

3. Emotional intelligence may sometimes be overlooked as a key relationship factor, yet if person A has the emotional intelligence of a teenager and person B is mature beyond his years, the connection could very well be an up-hill battle.

4. Similar mental faculties are important for relationship longevity. If person A is an intellect, enjoys spirited debates, and “thinking too much” gives person B a headache, the connection may not endure. Mental and emotional intelligence are also effectively measured by handwriting analysis.

5. Past lives together are the root of your like or dislike for any given person and relate strongly to chemistry, mentioned above. You may be physically attracted to someone who looks almost exactly like person A, but person A for some reason disgusts you.

We can’t prove that reincarnation exists, but our long-term findings convince us that it’s a valid theory.

Let’s consider a past life scenario involving Chris and Terry. Although they’ve been together in many past lives, a shared ancient Chinese lifetime is one of the most momentous, and the beginning of their long history. Chris was a successful merchant and possessed many slaves, including Terry. Terry endured a lifetime of abuse as Chris’s slave, yet Terry had it good compared to many slaves during that time. Terry resented Chris and carried that energy into successive lifetimes.

Today, they are together in an intimate relationship, with zero conscious memory of their past lives together. Although their bond is rewarding and they love each other, they’ve suffered problems in their relationship. Terry has never been an angry person, yet feels seemingly unexplained anger toward Chris, and Chris recognizes it. It’s a thorn in both of their sides and interferes with their relationship.

Fortunately, they were both open to the idea of past life regression therapy, and discovered the root of Terry’s anger toward Chris, the slave-master lifetime. The mere discovery of it, even if it is simply a metaphor, as skeptics like to believe, has dramatically improved their romance.

6. Another important, yet hidden compatibility factor is the innate, unique energy between every two-person connection, and it’s measurable through astrology and numerology.

Extremes in compatibility emphasize our theory. From the very beginning, that new person brought a toxic element to your life. The other person feels the same way. No matter how you try to get along, it just doesn’t work between you two.

Conventional psychology explains such a situation through biases, fears, and defenses. For instance, both people are prejudiced.

However, in the above example, neither you nor the other person are biased or possess any major red flag personality issues. It may be easy to blame the other person for the innate strife, but there’s nobody to blame for terrible, inborn compatibility.

The opposite is true; two people who can’t get enough of each other share a rare, wonderful bond and there’s nothing they can do to alter it either.

Outstanding compatibility either exists between two people, or it doesn’t, and it’s measurable. The truth is, the more challenging your compatibility, the harder you have to work at it to make your relationship tolerable.

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Numerology and Break-up Styles

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Numbers symbolize qualities, beyond mere quantities, and for thousands of years various civilizations have utilized numerology to infer timing, compatibility, and personality traits.

Numerology, otherwise known as number mysticism in ancient times, is one of our favorite methods of divination.

You may be familiar with associating the day of birth, for example, with specific personality traits. It’s a starting point, but we always recommend utilizing patterns, comprised of multiple factors because the symbolism of any given indicator is either corroborated or mitigated by the energy of the others. Our proprietary systems include hundreds of factors that form complex patterns. We believe pattern recognition is fundamental to accurate numerology and astrology prediction, compatibility, and personality analysis.

However, we readily acknowledge there exist rare, very psychic individuals who can utilize only a few numerology or astrology factors as touchstones to do consistently accurate readings.

In light of that, along with the idea that no matter what your level of proficiency, learning basic number mysticism can offer you clarity about your own life situations and those of others too.

Below we personify (in the extreme) each of the root numbers one through nine in relation to break-up styles to help you understand the basic related energies.

The root number of any multiple digit number is derived by adding the digits together and reducing to a single number. For example, 721 = 7+2+1= 10, 1+0, = 1.

Keep in mind the balanced expression of any given number is constructive, and the over-balanced or under-balanced form isn’t. Thus, all root numbers can be magnificent in their highest forms, but all can be terrible too, in their lowest (extreme) forms.

1: Her ex blamed the divorce on her excessive independence, though her aggression and intolerance didn’t help either. She’s a fierce competitor in her career, and few would doubt her originality, but it’s clear she lacks people skills. She just walked away and didn’t turn back.

2: Duplicitous to the core, his mate never knew if he was telling the truth or one of his usual unique interpretations of the truth. His sensitivity and thoughtfulness was endearing, but his partner got tired of him being too thin-skinned and lacking a backbone. He manipulated his way to being single again.

3: Her passionate and creative demeanor is endearing, but she rarely stops talking. She’s a lot of fun but her partner is concerned about her mental health. She prefers screaming matches to debates, and although she reunited with her mate after the break-up, she finally cut ties after vacillating for months.

4. Steadfast and dependable, she’s always there for her partner, at least mentally (emotions are a different story). Don’t expect her to be sentimental, but do expect her to be physical. She offered a very reasonable argument about why she wanted to end it, and her partner could see no flaw in her logic.

5. His versatility and charm is captivating, but is he a player? In the past, he’s either stayed too long in a relationship that’s clearly over, or left too soon. He’s sometimes too blunt, and his freewheeling escapades have caused trouble. He ended his most recent connection by cheating on his partner and making no effort to hide it.

6. She’s romantic, trustworthy, responsible, and a wonderful parent, but obstinate. She’ll never change, to her detriment. She claims breaking up isn’t the right thing to do, even though they both agree the marriage is over. Her partner finally moved out after not being able to endure the train-wreck of a marriage any longer.

7. You better give him lots of alone time for his writing, reading, working, and other individual pursuits, or he won’t be happy. He may even like his invisible angel friends more than you. But don’t worry; his heart was true (at least before the connection faded, in his view), even though you rarely saw him. When you did see him, you knew it was over because he was far more distant than usual.

8. Hire a good divorce attorney, because this one will take you to the cleaners, and then some. It wasn’t about anything but security and money in the first place, and you would have known that had you not fallen under her spell. She has a good mind for business and negotiations, but now she’s unfortunately using that against you. The way she suddenly and dramatically ended it reveals her innate cold-heartedness.

9. He says he’ll always care about you, and he means it. Even though he has a heart of gold, his love is too non-personal and he has no real convictions, despite appearances. He has loads of compassion and understanding, yet he’s a little too open-minded sometimes. His mate knew it was his way of signaling the end of the relationship when he suggested they open up their partnership to new lovers.

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Spiritual-self vs. Ego-self Intolerance — A Tale of Two Different Outlooks

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Your spiritual-self, or higher-self sometimes contrasts with your ego-self’s expectations in everyday affairs.

According to the theories of reincarnation and karma, your soul selects conditions and circumstances prior to your birth in order to learn and understand.

But after incarnating, due to societal conditioning and the natural disconnect between here and the other side, the never-ending series of tests on school-house Earth commence and makes life forever interesting, even grueling at times, for your personality.

Below we outline two distinct outlooks, ego-self vs. spiritual-self, as they relate to intolerance toward two people of different religions in a relationship.

1. Ari and Raphael met through friends and soon became an item, though they are from different backgrounds and of different religions.

From the start they both realized they needed to keep their relationship secret from their families.

Ari’s father disowned his own sister and hasn’t spoken with her in over a decade because she married someone of a different faith. “That’s crossing the line, and she is threatening the existence of our people,” said her father. “Please promise me you will avoid doing what my sister did,” he said to Ari. Ari complied at the time, but it’s been rough balancing the devotion to his family, and love life.

Ari’s father and grandparents were openly discriminated against in earlier decades, so it’s understandable how Ari’s father feels like he must keep his tribe together to survive. But times have changed, and that type of discrimination (e.g., Ari’s grandmother was fired from her job in the late 1940s once they found out her faith) today is almost unheard of.

Raphael’s parents have a similar viewpoint, even going so far as to tell their children others of a different faith aren’t welcome in their home. Raphael knows for certain his parents would turn against him forever if they knew he was dating someone of a different religion.

Ironically, both families, in striving to maintain the dignity and longevity of their ancestry, are practicing the same type of intolerance they have fought against for generations.

Our findings show that intolerance, in its many forms, is the basis of many spiritual tests, ones that your higher-self arranges before you incarnate.

Accept people unlike yourself and treat others as you want to be treated, then you pass your tests. Refuse to, then you’ll have an even tougher time the next time around.

2. From a spiritual perspective, Ari and Raphael have already passed an important test: tolerance of another religion and willingness to date someone of a different faith.

Unfortunately, their parents aren’t doing so well spiritually, particularly Ari’s father in how he cut ties with his sister. Their initial biased positions may well be fated, but how they deal with the idea of the relationship between Ari and Raphael may be one of those things where they could go either way–reject their child, or accept them and their partner’s religious differences. Then again, so much more in life is fated than it seems, based on our findings; their parents welcoming the relationship between Ari and Raphael is about as likely as a blizzard in New York City in July.

It also could be a test for Ari and Raphael how they deal with the relationship once their parents find out. Do they break it off, or stay?

Considering they feel strongly enough about each other to stay together, remaining in the relationship, despite the protests of their families, likely means they would be successfully passing that specific spiritual test.

Everyone has an ego-self that is fully active most of the time, no matter how spiritual and devout they appear. Life’s most important tests can be a fierce battle between your ego-self and spiritual self. Though striving to be tolerant, to express unconditional love, and to accept that which you can’t change can make life much more rewarding and help align your ego-self with your spiritual-self.

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Spiritual Advice You Should Ignore Part II

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Thanks to modern technology and the Internet, you’ll find an abundance of spiritual information online when you seek answers to your spiritual questions. Unfortunately, so much of it is spiritual advice you should ignore.

Throughout over 30 years of extensive metaphysical and spiritual exploration, we’ve never adhered to only one system, religion, or outlook. Instead, we use intuition, reason, common sense, and long-term observation to discover what works.

Below is some of the spiritual advice we’ve found that is best ignored since it’s unhelpful or even dangerous.

Vegan and vegetarian diets are the most spiritual. If this kind of diet works for you, great, but eating animals doesn’t incur negative karma. Also, every body is different, and some people cannot thrive on such a diet, especially over a long period.

Feng Shui will bring you everything you want. We’ve found that Feng Shui can be helpful if the focus is on directional Feng Shui and the structure of the home, not simply colors or lucky charms. Also, it won’t override your fate or enable you to create what isn’t already destined for you.

Your problems are the result of bad energy or a curse. Any psychic who makes this claim and says she can clear your aura for thousands of dollars probably doesn’t even know how to identify negative energy or clear it.

Demons (or dark energy) don’t exist unless you give them energy. We used to believe that, until we delved deeply into the topic, and learned the truth about spirit releasement, possession, and Spiritual Detox, and cleared our own energy fields of spiritual debris. Since then, we’ve learned to recognize the signs of possession and attachment and cleared many people and places.

Black magic is not bad, just another form of energy. Any form of black magic is tapping into dark energy and is usually about manipulation instead of wanting what’s best for everyone involved. Avoid it at all costs or you’ll be a slave to dark energy for a very long time. The saying “selling your soul” is exactly what happens when you exploit dark energy.

Use spells to create what you want. Be very careful with spells, especially old spells that can draw forth generations of fears and negative energy. Have only good intentions and never attempt to control someone or you’ll create negative karma for yourself.

Some psychics can bring a lover back. Anyone who says that is a charlatan and should be avoided. Even if they do have the ability to influence your lover, it will create negative karma for you and you can’t cheat fate if they’re not destined to return.

A soul has to wait a certain number of years before reincarnating. Every soul is different. Some may wait many years, and some jump back into a body as soon as possible, depending upon what they need and want to accomplish.

Each soul incarnates a certain number of times. There is no set number of incarnations. Some get it right in fewer incarnations but most choose to return over and over to work through their karma.

A soul only incarnates into a certain race, country, religion, or gender. Most souls choose to experience all of them.

You only live once. Your current personality may only live once, but your soul comes back again and again.

You are doomed if you don’t follow a particular religion or belief. You don’t need religion to do the right thing and treat others as you want to be treated.

Your Twin Soul is your perfect match who was created for you. Our findings completely invalidate this notion.

You only have one soul mate. Yet another romantic myth. You have many, and most are more for personal growth than romantic bliss.

You can manifest your soul mate. This is wishful thinking. If you are destined to meet a compatible soul mate, you can use your free will to reach that goal. If you are not destined to meet a good, lasting match at this time, you won’t.

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Astrology and Getting Married–Good Love Life Timing is Irrelevant

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The prevailing view involving modern marriage and astrology is that both individuals surely must have stellar love life timing at the time of the ceremony because marriage always equates to true love.

Regrettably, this is false.

Time and time again, the results of our empirical research involving comprehensive astrology and numerology show that the event of marriage between two people has almost nothing to do with their individual love life timing, or the success of their relationship.

We realize our viewpoint on this matter is controversial, but people rely on us for presenting our findings honestly and objectively, instead of sugar-coating with inspiration and poetry to increase sales.

Below we list five of our findings related to marriage and love life.

1. Love life timing, like any other area of life (e.g., financial) is personal and unique. Your collective love life timing, at any given time, is different than that of anyone else.

It would be extremely rare for two people to both have excellent love life timing on the day of their marriage. Besides, in that case, they would likely have had worse love life timing before, when they met (considering they’re not getting married within days of first meeting).

2. Contrary to what you’ll find in popular Internet searches, attempting to plan a wedding on an auspicious day is futile. There are no auspicious days for everyone. An auspicious day for you could very well be an ominous day for your mate.

It’s a myth you can overcome challenging karma by beginning something on a particular day. Personal karma is infinitely more weighty than electional astrology and numerology, which involves identifying the most favorable time to initiate something. Electional astrology and numerology are great for making the most of your fate, but they won’t allow you to evade your fate. Thus, the day you hold your wedding is virtually immaterial, other than planning to avoid unseasonable weather or other hassles.

3. These three points in time matter most in discerning the particulars of a relationship: when the two individuals met, when they began dating, and when they first had sex.

Those dates tell us an enormous amount of information, in conjunction with the subjects’ comprehensive astrology and numerology charts.

4. You can’t make your collective love life timing better than it is (through “manifestation” techniques or other ways), but you can certainly make the most of it by how you view the circumstances in your life. For example, let’s say you’re very happy with your match, but she’s so busy with her career that you don’t have much quality time together. It’s up to you to cherish the time you do have together, and accept that no relationship is perfect.

5. Everyone has unique love life karma. Some have steep challenges, and on the other side of the spectrum, others have life-long, wonderful love life karma (though this is very rare). Most people are somewhere in the middle of the spectrum.

Go ahead and get married or have a commitment party on the day that seems best and realize that the event of marriage is a distant second to your intimate relationship.

We realize our findings may sometimes tempt you to lose faith about your love life. However, if you look within for the strength to honestly face the challenges, accept what you can’t change, make the most of your opportunities and regard them with infinite gratitude, you can have a decent love life no matter your karma.

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Love Life Act Two–Fated to Love Again

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Almost everyone who lost a romantic partner or missed a love life opportunity has wondered if they will ever experience another rewarding love life connection. It’s an exceedingly common concern, especially for those, such as divorcees or widows, finding themselves single for the first time in years.

Below is a related inquiry, and our response.

“I really appreciate your honesty and that you are not in the business of telling people what they want to hear in order to make money.

“Is there any way to know if I am fated to be single or if I’ll meet another man who I can call my soul mate?

I’m 50 years-old and I’m asking you because I just cannot imagine myself with anyone else.

“Many astrologers say it doesn’t matter what Venus is transiting on any given day because unless relationship/marriage is fated it won’t happen, but these same astrologers don’t want to talk about future predictions.

“So, how can I find out if it is fated that I will have another joyful relationship. Mind you, I don’t mind being single if it is what is to be. I just want to know.”

Thanks for your feedback. If you cannot imagine yourself with anyone else then you are maintaining a block between you and a compatible match. Let go and move on. Every time you think of your ex, be grateful for the experience and tell yourself to let go and move on.

Fortunately, everyone has many soul mates (which vary in levels of compatibility), so holding on to ones that weren’t meant to be forever (or any soul mate, for that matter) is a waste of energy.

Companionship is easy to find; you can enjoy a nice coffee or lunch date with anyone if you have some things in common. But a mutual, heartfelt, compatible connection is something entirely different, and is not as easy to find because it requires mutually rewarding love life karma and beneficial romantic timing.

Our findings show the following:

Everyone’s love life has seasons, the order of which and how long they last depend on your unique personal fate.

Everyone’s love life timing is unique.

Some people have most of their best collective love life timing early in life, before age 30.

Others have their best collective love life timing in their 30s, 40s, or 50s.

Still others have it later in life.

It’s very rare to have mostly fantastic love life timing throughout life. Likewise, it’s rare to be free of all red flag personality traits that damage relationships.

It’s common to have average love life timing throughout life, with several narrow windows of wonderful love life timing, relative to the degree of one’s overall, lifetime love life karma (ranging from very challenging to very rewarding).

It’s entirely possible for those who marry young to have questionable love life timing in their youth and much better love life timing later in life.

It’s also entirely possible for those who have fantastic love life timing before age 30 and marry young to then have awful love life timing later in life.

In other words, an engagement and then marriage, a legally binding agreement and business arrangement, does not authentically reflect that a person is in their best collective love life timing. Nor does it prevent fate from bringing a different destined match into your life.

We believe there is a way to know approximately when you are destined to meet compatible people. However, since a lot of work goes into tuning in to someone for a reading or interpreting the languages of fate (comprehensive ancient astrology and numerology, not modern frivolous astrology, horoscopes, computer generated reports, or other superficial methods), it’s not cheap. Aside from identifying relationship issues such as problematic personality traits, we identify the windows of time in which your romantic timing is optimum (or the opposite).

While “joyful” is subjective, we can tell you if and when you’ll be in good enough (at least as good as you’ve had in the past) timing for a decent relationship (i.e., when you’ll connect with a new partner).

Also, you mention Venus transits. We’ve found Venus transits, like all transits, progressions, and other modern astrology methods, meaningless relative to ancient methodologies. Our findings show that ancient methodologies effectively outline personal fate (including love life).

Finally, there’s something anyone can do to dramatically increase their odds of meeting compatible people, yet most people don’t, mainly because they are waiting for someone to appear and fix their life, instead of fixing themselves first: Do all you can to make yourself look and feel as good as you can (including an optimum diet and exercise). Not just moderate exercise and diet in “moderation,” but you must be on a quest to be the best version of yourself ever. No excuses.

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39 Magic Affirmations for Incredible Sex

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Have you ever utilized the power of positive affirmations?

Some say you can reach any goal, including improving your sex life, with positive thinking. Though we believe some things are out of reach no matter what you do, positive affirmations can help you with what is within reach.

After years of empirical research, we believe all areas of life, including your sex life, are greatly impacted by your present and past life experiences. Your personal timing and destiny (the same thing as fate) reflects your past and present.

The good news is that although a lot in your life is predestined, you have free will to make the most of your destiny with your thoughts, within the boundaries of your fate.

If you’d like to improve your sex life, you can use affirmations to your advantage.

However, it’s helpful to first realize that thoughts are affected by beliefs, and everyone’s beliefs of sex are tainted by two major influences:

1) Subconscious past life memories of bad experiences with sex
2) Society’s oppressive view that sex, unless within a marriage, is dirty or wrong

Once you acknowledge these influences, they’re easier to overcome or at least work around.

Below are 39 magic affirmations for incredible sex. Pick one and focus on it for a week or more. Then try another. Your subconscious mind will accept them if you repeat them often enough.

Note: subliminal MP3s or affirmations work whether you use “you” or “I.” But, ”you” can be more effective if you are skeptical or don’t yet believe the affirmations, and ”I” can work better if you don’t like following direction. Repetition will help conquer either hurdle.

Note: We are advocates of safe sex, especially if you are single or aren’t 100% certain your partner is always 100% faithful, and recommend this important affirmation: My health is important, thus safe sex is required for me.

1) I am passionate about expanding my sexual knowledge.

2) The immense universe of sexual pleasure is mine to explore.

3) I have the capability to become an incredible lover.

4) It’s a turn-on to bring pleasure to my partner.

5) I choose to focus on sexual pleasure instead of specific acts.

6) I enjoy sexual spontaneity and creativity.

7) I love my body and the ways it brings my partner and me pleasure.

8) I enjoy sex more when I relax and connect with my body.

9) I forget about having to perform and instead focus on what feels good.

10) I’m confident I can bring out the best in my partner and myself.

11) I let go of comparisons and focus on the pleasure in my body and being present.

12) I enjoy the moment and release expectations.

13) I savor the euphoric feeling of letting go.

14) I have more control when I’m present in my body.

15) Exploring a partner’s pleasure gives me great pleasure.

16) I slow down and relish every moment of sexual pleasure.

17) I’m letting go of the past and discovering the ecstasy of being a confident and sexual person.

18) It’s okay to express my feelings.

19) I’m choosing to create a satisfying sex life.

20) I love to communicate with my partner about what turns us on.

21) I enjoy experimenting with what my partner wants.

22) I forget about performing and savor the pleasure of being with my partner.

23) I respect myself as I enjoy every moment of sexual exploration.

24) I open to the sexual flow with my partner.

25) Sexual pleasure is my prerogative and I’m ready to go for it.

26) I now perceive sex as a healing, natural, and caring act.

27) I am responsible for my orgasm.

28) I feel more sexual pleasure when I let go.

29) My vulnerability is part of my power.

30) I breathe, relax and open to pleasure.

31) As I accept myself more, I become more desirable and attractive.

32) My body is the ultimate pleasure temple.

33) I’m feeling the power of my sexual glow.

34) I’m letting go and letting my sexual energy flow.

35) I’m honest and direct and communicate what I need.

36) I’m saying yes to sexual pleasure.

37) Great sex is important for my health and well-being.

38) My sexual desire is healthy and natural.

39) Exploring my sexual pleasure is my right.

Now that you’re aware how your thoughts impact your reality, you can use these affirmations for incredible sex.

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Why Relationships are Harder for the Spiritually Sensitive

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Most relationships aren’t easy, and relationships are even harder for the spiritually sensitive because they not only need to connect with a partner mentally, emotionally, and physically, but also spiritually. For them, the unseen, spiritual connection is obvious, thus important.

Certain spiritual dynamics, such as those listed below, can make relationships harder for the spiritually sensitive. They also contribute to breakups, even for people uninterested in the spiritual side of life; after months or years together, the spiritual conflicts and incompatibilities emerge and can’t be ignored anymore. Thankfully, there are ways to deal with them.

Past life karma–positive and negative

Spiritually sensitive people are more aware of, or at least sense, the positive and negative past life experiences and karma with people they meet. This can be problematic or beneficial.

You can’t change karma, but you do have free will to react to it in a positive way. Past life regression can help you uncover and release the root problems, or at least gain understanding, which will foster compassion and forgiveness.

Lost souls and dark energy

Lost or disembodied souls who haven’t yet gone to the Light after the death of their bodies are more of a problem than people realize. Spiritually sensitive people can be more susceptible and even a target for them. You can remove this spiritual debris if the affected person is willing to clear it and stop the behavior that attracts it. But unless you understand how lost souls and dark energy can influence people, you may overlook the problem and even erroneously view it as a myth.

Personal timing

You can’t change your personal timing any more than you can change the length of summer or winter, but an awareness of it can help you ride the waves of opportunity and prepare for the storms. Spiritually sensitive people can feel the highs and lows represented by personal timing more than others, so it’s even more important for them to understand how to work with it.

Compatibility

The spiritual connection between you and every person is unique. With some it’s easy, beneficial, and pleasant, and with others it’s the opposite. You can’t change it, but being aware of it can help you deal constructively with your own and a partner’s flaws, or be more selective with partners so you avoid spending months or years together, only to find you’re not compatible. When you’re spiritually sensitive, you can’t pretend the sexual chemistry or love connection is there when it’s not, but that can save time too because you’ll move on sooner rather than later.

Romantic illusion

It’s much harder to enjoy the romance when the spiritual conflicts are staring you in the face. Also, when you’re spiritually aware, you are frequently able to perceive the spiritual reasons for the relationship, which can sometimes damper the romance.

Spiritually sensitive people eventually understand that their love life destiny may not always match what they want to happen, or the romantic illusion ideal (a life-long, mutually compatible and harmonious relationship). But with spiritual awareness, at least you understand the deeper, more important reasons for the union, which makes accepting and working with fate easier.

Excellent spiritual connections between souls exist on the other side, but unfortunately, thanks to karmic baggage and personality flaws, they’re different on this plane. One good enough for a life-long, mutually beneficial and harmonious traditional marriage is not the norm.

Fortunately, whether you’re spiritually sensitive or not, you have free will to react to your love life fate and make the most of it.

Additional things that help the spiritually sensitive include refraining from conforming to society’s expectations too much, not apologizing for being different, not talking about spiritual subjects with extreme skeptics, learning to let go of expectations, and accepting others as they are.

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Ready For Love–The Ultimate Love Life Test

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Most singles searching for love believe they are ready for love. Who can blame them? They’re doing all the things mainstream love experts recommend like keeping fit, making room in their life for that special person, and doing what it takes to meet new and interesting potential matches. But they may not be ready for love, based on the ultimate love life test.

According to Osho, the ultimate love life test is the capacity to be alone: “The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another person–without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.”

We’ve found these words of wisdom to be true. We have great compassion for those who are fearful of solitude, but as Jean-Paul Sartre said, “If you’re lonely when you’re alone, you’re in bad company.” We interpret that to mean that you may benefit from examining the root cause of not liking to be alone before you enter into a love relationship. Rollo May said, “Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.”

As kids, we shared a bedroom, and with a full house, never had much opportunity for solitude. Now, as adults, we both relish solitude. As Audrey Hepburn said in 1953, “I have to be alone very often. I’d be quite happy if I spent from Saturday night until Monday morning alone in my apartment. That’s how I refuel.” We understand what she said. It’s like solitude allows us to access the other side and catch up to our souls, after interacting with people and navigating through our daily lives in the mundane world.

We see exactly where Leonardo da Vinci was coming from when he said, “If you are alone you belong entirely to yourself. If you are accompanied by even one companion you belong only half to yourself or even less in proportion to the thoughtlessness of his conduct and if you have more than one companion you will fall more deeply into the same plight.”

At the same time, we understand why love of solitude may be a controversial view, relative to love relationships. It’s tough to have a conventional love relationship if you need a lot of alone time. We suggest a balance of solitude and being with your partner. However, many people don’t like it if their partner enjoys and needs solitude.

The real problem seems to be how people view relationships, largely due to societal conditioning. As Osho points out above, possession, dependence, and lack of freedom and unconditional love aren’t hallmarks of true love. Granted, few people are at the point of feeling completely at ease with allowing a partner absolute freedom, without conditions.

Being mindful of these words of wisdom involving solitude is a good start to being ready for an authentic love relationship.

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