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17 Dating Tips for Mystics

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Meeting a compatible person for a relationship can seem out of reach at times for singles in the dating scene. Dating can be difficult, as anyone will tell you who has experienced online dating disasters or grueling blind dates set up by well-meaning friends.

For those who are more spiritually sensitive than average or actively involved in personal growth and the self-realization process (e.g., prefer to search deeply into the meaning of life), dating can be even more challenging due to the increased tendency to see things as they are, rather than as they would like them to be. The following perspectives about dating while on a spiritual path can help make dating more fun and productive.

1) It’s easy to get caught up in hopes and expectations when dating, but the best policy is to drop them. Knowing what works for you, yet at the same time surrendering and accepting your situation as it is and accepting any person you meet as they are will make dating far more pleasant. For example, you can accept  that people who avoid inner searching and self-help methods are are going to view you as an extraterrestrial when you tell them about the visions you see during meditation. Luckily, you have free will to edit your conversations and be more selective about who you date.

2) Try not to feel insulted when you read someone’s personal ad who responded to yours and intuitively conclude they are lying about some of their profile statistics or that their pictures are probably ten years old. Calling them on it will only cause conflict, so just accept that the type of person who misrepresents themselves in a personal ad isn’t going to acknowledge the hassles it creates and might very well behave this way in other parts of their life.

3) During the first phone conversation with a new dating possibility, don’t take it personally when they ask you 100 interview questions to see if you qualify for the part in the relationship play they are casting. Unlike you, they’re not making an attempt to intuitively sense the compatibility and are likely trying to fit you into what they want rather than accepting you as you are.

4) During the first face-to-face meeting, try not to share the clear, past life visions you see of the person as a cruel, Roman slave-driver long ago. They couldn’t possibly understand that you really did know them in a previous lifetime or that one of the reasons you could not bring yourself to date them in this one is because you were one of their badly treated slaves.

5) Likewise, until you know they are open to the possibility of reincarnation and past lives, try to refrain, at least during the first few dates, from informing them that you two were passionate lovers in a past life.

This kind of news, while exciting for you, may seem too weird to them. The same goes for the information about your lifetime as a booze smuggler, pickpocket, or opium addict. As amusing as the stories could be, they just wouldn’t understand.

6) When they are telling you about how their previous relationships ended because of how horrible their partners were, but you see right through their version of the truth and sense the real story–how it’s because this person couldn’t be honest or monogamous to save their life–keep it to yourself. Vocalizing what you sense would only spark discord.

7) When this person (from number 6 above) suddenly tells you, on the first date, that you’re the only person they want and that they’d “never” cheat on you, take it with a grain of salt. They mean well, but don’t know themselves well enough to know better. If they did, they would be honest with themselves and be upfront about how they prefer sexual variety.

8) Go easy on them. Due to your heightened awareness, in part, from the all the work you’ve done on yourself, you may understand them better than they understand themselves, so it may be like relating to a child at times.

9) Try not to laugh when your date, who you strongly suspect (after getting to know them somewhat) would lie, steal, or cheat to get what they want, says, “I believe in karma.” They don’t yet understand that everything you do, even if you don’t get caught, comes back to you.

10) As the date (from number 9 above) starts digging for information about your net worth or how much money you make (with dollar signs sparkling in their eyes), just smile and say, “the Universe is my checkbook.” When it comes time to pay for your drinks, resist the urge to skip out the back door and leave them with the check and remind yourself that this would create bad karma and tie you to someone you’d rather avoid.

11) Luckily, you can save time by using meditation and intuition to screen potential dates. Don’t cancel a date just because you sense they may not be the love of your life, but if you get several clues that the person isn’t ready to date, for example, don’t be afraid to cancel. Just be sure to be considerate and let them know you’re canceling or that too will create negative karma.

12) It may be better to wait for a more appropriate time to share how you psychically perceived them to be, within 5 minutes of meeting on the first date, a very expressive and generous lover. While some people would be flattered, many would not like feeling so transparent to a stranger.

13) Be grateful when someone dumps you. They probably weren’t right for you anyway and you are now free to meet someone who doesn’t think you’re crazy because you trust your intuition.

14) Your heightened awareness may seem like a curse at times, like when you wake up one morning and suddenly, intuitively, and mysteriously know the fated outcome of a relationship after only two dates. Just be grateful for it, as it can save a lot of time and heartbreak.

15) When you crave a relationship and feel a great sense of lack without one, remind yourself that dating and love relationships are an addiction for many and self-actualization methods, such as meditation, can be a cure.

16) Keep in mind that the more personal growth work you do on yourself, the fewer people there will be who are compatible. The payoff for becoming more self-actualized can be more enjoyment of being single, and a more fulfilling and less taxing relationship when you do meet a compatible person.

17) When you do meet someone with whom you share compatibility and chemistry, and your new significant other asks you what you see for your future together, it may be best to simply remind them (and yourself) to just enjoy the moment rather than worrying about whether or not the relationship will last as long as desired.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Appearing Spiritual vs. Being Spiritual

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Our professional experience involving meditation, psychic perception, past life regression, and comprehensive astrology and numerology tells us that when a soul chooses to incarnate and live a life as a yogi, nun, or another, similar “spiritual” existence, it’s often because of a desire, even a need (on a soul level), to work on or experience more spirituality, or soul-searching. Contrary to popular belief, we’ve found that it isn’t reflective of automatic spiritual awareness, sorry.

In fact, it’s certainly possible that the 27 year-old butcher at the grocery store, the 53 year-old mail carrier, the 19 year-old construction worker, or the attractive, provocatively dressed, 45 year-old woman who’s a fan of subtle cosmetic surgery and occasional cocktails, for example, are closer to being self-actualized than any yogi you will ever meet.

A homeless person, professional boxer, military general, and a rock star, for instance, might all be far more spiritually adept than the yogi featured in the best-seller. The insights a musician relays through her lyrics could very well have far more of an mystical impact on your life than what you would find visiting a sanctuary, place of worship, or reading the teachings of a prominent cleric.

You will eventually discover that it’s possible to encounter more wisdom in your own backyard than it is on the other side of the planet in some dreamy, far-off place. Our apologies if this notion is far less exotic and spiritually romantic, but we’ve found it to be the truth. Such ideas may not sell a lot of books, but they will give you a new perspective.

Assuming the theory of reincarnation is valid (it has yet to be proved invalid), your soul (not your personality) chooses to experience various existences on Earth (and elsewhere) to learn and grow. One lifetime might include 40 years working on a farm, another might include being a merchant, and yet another might be all about family, children, friends, and experiencing the richness of the emotional side of life.

One of the more spiritually enlightening lifetimes for anyone might include 30 years of solitary confinement in prison. Would such an experience be fated? We believe so. Remember, soul progression happens through infinite circumstances and through multiple lifetimes and often may not appear logical, from an earthly perspective.

Years ago, a past life regression client of ours saw glimpses of herself as a castaway on an island in S.E. Asia sometime in the 15th century A.D. At the end of the session, we guided her to view that lifetime from a higher-self perspective. She casually reported, still in a meditative state, that the extensive isolation in that life, among others, was vital to her soul growth because, after her basic survival needs were met, she (in that life, a he) had no other choice but to go within and reflect.

What happens when you go within, such as when you meditate? You get your own answers and you gain clarity about your life, your path, and eventually the meaning of life. You become the “higher being” who knows best. Meditation, or better, even if only for a short time, a monastic, or solitary existence can be like a spiritual boot camp for earthlings who have, for whatever reason, ignored their spiritual side. Might a person living a monastic existence already be self-actualized? Yes, and we can discern such things through our work.

A review of her (the woman who had the castaway lifetime) comprehensive charts shows a much higher level of knowingness, as reflected by dozens of key indicators and subsequent patterns. In our professional opinion, she has earned the awareness through past life experience, and no amount of study in an ashram or temple in this life (aside from helping her to remember her innate wisdom) would give her that now.

The point we are making is that truly spiritual people often appear otherwise to many who are conditioned to think that one must be of a certain age or part of a structured faith or discipline to have divine insight.

At the same time, we believe that there is a place for all the various spiritual adherents and their respective leaders in this world. They are doing exactly as they are predestined to do, and we respect all faiths and all practitioners, as long as they are not hurting others.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Lost Love

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Losing a loved one is a heart wrenching experience to say the least.

Although finding the strength to move on with one’s life after such an experience takes time, it can be done.

Gratitude is wonderful for helping to overcome grief. Be grateful for the love you had, the experiences you shared, what you currently have in your life, and what will be in the future.

The closer the connection, the more difficult the separation, but it helps to realize that everyone has more than one soul mate. Some are more compatible than others, but all are meant to enter and leave your life when they do, meaning all relationships appear to be spiritually contracted, including the length of time to be spent together. Expectations of “growing old” with a partner are the norm in our society, but in many cases it’s not meant to be.

As we wrote in our book Your Love Life and Reincarnation, published in 2002, almost all relationships include karmic ties. In other words, one person owes the other, they both owe each other and their connection is necessary for growth and payback, or a similar situation exists. Perhaps there is unfinished business or the two souls agreed, before incarnating, to reunite in order to learn some lessons or accomplish a certain goal.

For someone grieving from the loss of a loved one, we would like to suggest a new outlook. We recommend viewing love interests as opportunities for growth and allowing them to be what they’re meant to be, rather than all or nothing, or assuming they’ll be “the one” for life. Such an outlook eases the difficulty of accepting what is and what is to be, that which you can’t change.

Loss can be devastating, but at least with this perspective, it can be easier to digest when it doesn’t work out as it “should have.” Although that seems to deflate romantic notions of “forever,” know that love really is forever on a spiritual level, not on this physical plane. It’s helpful to view soul progression in lifetimes, not just one existence, as each soul has an agenda that stretches throughout time.

That brings us to the popular phrase, “love of your life.” Perhaps “love of your life so far” or “one of the loves of your life” are much more appropriate since you haven’t lived your entire life and met all the potential love interests yet. This way of thinking does not diminish what you had with past loves since every relationship is different, and you may have a lot to look forward to no matter what your age.

Is a lost love destined? Is feeling a deep sense of loss a natural part of personal fate? We believe so, since the comprehensive astrology and numerology charts clearly indicate unions and separations, among other circumstances. Most experience the loss of love at one time or another. It may be someone they didn’t know that well, someone with whom they were involved for years, or even someone they are still involved with but the spark has died for one or both.

From a spiritual perspective, feeling a sense of loss serves any number of purposes, including, but not limited to the following: it allows you to appreciate more what you had (and will have again); it allows you to experience first-hand the cyclical nature of life; and in some cases, it may even allow you to balance the scales of karma for the loss others experienced due to your actions in the past. But don’t feel guilty over the possibility of past life negative actions as long as you are “doing the right thing” in all situations during this life.

For those who lost a love that may have seemed like “the one,” even though you never had the chance to come together, this type of love loss can also be upsetting, especially if there is a strong past life connection. Perhaps you met and spent time together at work or on vacation. Although the connection has run its course, you still think about the person a lot. However, if you had spent more time together, you may have realized that the person only represented what you wanted or felt you needed in your love life. “What could have been” may have been more of a fantasy. The time spent together was all that was meant to be, for now, maybe, in part, to further establish a link to be continued on a much deeper level the next time around. Remember, the spiritual reasons for the events in your life may seem illogical, and the fated outcome is often at odds with plans, expectations, and hopes.

For those who lost a very compatible and rewarding relationship, past life regression is a great tool to return to a lifetime where you were also together in a loving relationship, and even to a future lifetime (through future progression) when you’ll have the opportunity to love each other again. It will also help to calm your mind and heart to realize this lifetime is just a part of a long tapestry of love.

For those who had to leave a relationship due to dangerous circumstances, such as abuse, alcoholism or drugs, but still cannot seem to let go of the person, cut the spiritual ties that bind. Consciously and visually surround yourself with White Light, cut any cords connecting you and the other person, and fill the empty places where the cords were with White Light. Do this daily until you feel the effects and ask for spiritual help in the process, from whomever you pray to. Let go of them and any anger the best you can. Forgiveness will heal you and help you move on.

Every relationship is different and even though grieving for a lost love isn’t easy, know that there may be a future lover waiting in the wings for a relationship that is even better than you have ever imagined. But dwelling on “what could have been” or your loss will not help to usher in a happier future.

Also know that, based on past life regression research, you have likely loved hundreds of times or more in hundreds, if not thousands (or many more) of past lives. It’s also possible that you will be with that person in a future life, in one way or another, when the timing is better for both of you. In the mean time, let go of this person the best you can. This will not release the memory of them from your life or the possibility of being together again, but remove them as a potential block in your current love life.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Handwriting Analysis: Some Elaboration is Healthy & Perfect Penmanship Isn’t

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Elaborate handwriting, including lots of embellishment such as unnecessary loops, curves, spirals, underlining, circles, wavy lines, and other forms is an important, and telling, handwriting analysis consideration.

Handwriting analysis, or graphology, is so informative because it reveals subconscious character, the real personality, not just the persona and the one seen when a person is at his or her best.

The U.S. Library of Congress classifies graphology as a branch of psychology.

All in all, there are over 300 handwriting traits to consider when doing an analysis. Some of the more obvious ones include the following: connectives; connectivity; consistency; contradictions in script; compression; contraction/expansiveness; down-strokes; elaboration; expansion; finals; fluidity; form; harmony; hooks; jabs; knots; lead-ins; legibility; loops; margins; movement; organization; originality; pressure; retracing; rhythm; shading; signature compared to the rest of script; simplicity; size; slant; overall arrangement and picture of space; letter, word and line spacing; speed; spirals; tension; ties; zonal balance and much more.

Does any single consideration, such as the excessive elaboration, override the cumulative strength of the collective body of other considerations? No.

The collective body of traits in a handwriting sample either supports or mitigates the energy of any one individual aspect.

Also, in order for a specific graphology trait to accurately reflect personality, it must be throughout the handwriting sample at least three to four times to qualify.

Accuracy in graphology demands that the context of the entire writing sample be considered and that all individual aspects and parts of the script must be interpreted independently and then built into a complete picture describing the personality.

Also, you need at least a half page of cursive handwriting and not just a signature if you want to start on the right track.

For the highest level of accuracy in handwriting analysis, formal graphology training is recommended. However, we created our Graphology Resource Keys for anyone  to gain a very good understanding of their own or other’s subconscious character simply by comparing a handwriting sample to the Keys.

Copybook form, or “perfect handwriting,” varies somewhat from country to country and it’s best to be familiar with the standard copybook form of the country in which the person learned to write.

It’s good if your handwriting is not perfect, because you don’t want perfect handwriting. It’s natural to gradually move away from the basic copybook form you learned in grade school to develop your own unique style.

Just as everyone has a unique personality, everyone has unique handwriting. Aristotle remarked, “Spoken words are the symbols of mental experience and written words are the symbols of spoken words. Just as all men do not have the same speech sounds, so do all men not have the same writing.”

Adults who write in copybook form (considering there is corroborating energy from the rest of the handwriting considerations) strive to follow all rules exactly and abide by all laws. They are usually conformists, traditional, and inhibited. They commonly carry guilt and repression is customary. Hence, “perfect” handwriting is far from perfect.

If your handwriting has a lot of originality with high form level (good balance, movement, harmony, etc.) and other positive traits, it could indicate flexibility, resourcefulness, confidence, inward motivation, and possible leadership skills.

On the other hand, if you see originality in an off-balanced, inharmonious script (low form level), you could find rebelliousness, defiance, turmoil, confusion, dishonesty, and even psychosis or criminal-minded behavior.

Spirals are generally a negative sign relating, in part, to deception or self-deception.

Normal elaboration includes longer than usual t-bars and finals at the end of words, for example.

Excessive elaboration, such as artificial flourishes, many added strokes, long lower zone length (loops of letters such as lower case g and j), etc. could indicate an ostentatious personality with a need to impress others, a need for drama, flirtatiousness, vanity, exaggeration, bluff, a mind too rooted in fantasy, insincerity, a need to be told they are loved, façade of intrigue to mask an inferiority complex, possible deception, scattered energy, affectation, defense for self-consciousness, unstable self image, too much focus on trivial matters, and difficulty concentrating.

As the level of inharmoniousness increases with excessive elaboration, the negative traits listed above will also intensify.

If you see excessive elaboration mainly in the upper zone (e.g., where the t’s are crossed), which is the zone of the intellect, you may find someone whose thinking is ruled by illusion, and even someone who is a compulsive liar.

But remember, although it’s alluded to above, it’s important enough to say again: no single graphology indicator, by itself, absolutely describes any one personality trait.

Yes, straight-across, blunt ending strokes can indicate cautiousness, but there could be ten or more other indicators in a person’s script that would mitigate the notion.

If you find elaboration that is excessively complicated, especially with many complicated circle letters, such as a and o, it could point toward someone who is trying to hide something, even if it’s on an unconscious level and not in an intentionally deceptive way.

Look to the zone of handwriting for more clues to what the excessive elaboration with inharmonious handwriting indicates: in the lower zone (where the loops of letters such as g and j reside) it’s an imbalance relating to sexuality, social life, materialism, and physical energy, among others; in the middle zone (where letters such as n, m, and o reside) it’s an imbalance in practicality, daily routine, here-and-now, ego, consciousness and more; and in the upper zone (where the t-bar, tops of t’s, and h’s reside) it’s an imbalance in mental, intellectual, philosophical, literary interests, the imagination, and more.

When you see a Hollywood star’s signature that has over-the-top elaboration, if the rest of his or her script is much more subdued, it’s a sign of pretentiousness.

Alternatively, elaboration with positive indicators is favorable. With harmonious handwriting it can symbolize charm, healthy imagination, and originality.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Numerology Master Numbers

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Master numbers include double digit numbers 11, 22, 33, 44, 55, 66, 77, 88, and 99. They are called Master Numbers because there is inherent masterful, or extraordinary promise symbolized by them. This energy is far from mundane and instead largely other-dimensional.

Therein resides the catch: These numbers represent energy that is not of this every-day plane of existence. It’s very spiritual and therefore, unpredictable and hard to handle.

More often than not, those with many Master Numbers in key positions in the comprehensive charts experience deeper life challenges than other people.

They usually have more charisma and are more likely to gain recognition and honor relating to their area of focus due to regularly accessing unusual wavelengths and naturally thinking outside of the box, yet so often they gain infamy, notoriety and suffer major set-backs.

The more Master Numbers a person has, the more likely they are to be seen as outsiders, outcasts, and even insane. They frequently isolate themselves from ordinary people and they are miserable if they try to fit into society and live a “normal” life. They must have tolerance, strength of mind to follow their heart, and compassion for the many who reject them due to their atypical viewpoints and other-worldly way of viewing reality. Also, an at least somewhat holistic way of living (especially diet) helps them cope with their unusual sensitivity.

Everyone has key lessons with which their souls have chosen to challenge them in order to learn while incarnated on Earth. Those with more Master Numbers than others usually encounter more burdens and challenges. Most people have at least one Master Number in the hundreds of positions in their comprehensive charts, either as a natal consideration, or a cycle of time.

Our Numerology Decoder Software correctly calculates Master Numbers, can tell you where in your basic charts you have them and what they mean in those positions.

Master Numbers are more appropriately called “Double Trouble Numbers,” as they are rarely easy to live up to; there is usually more to accomplish, and more karma to balance. But there is ultimately more reward, even though it’s often more spiritual (on a soul level) instead of mundane (personality level). Those with a higher than average number of Master Numbers must strive for purity in thought, intent, and action, as anything less will take them down.

Often, those with heavy Master Number energy are shunned and rejected because they are so different and rub the wrong way those who don’t like change and progressive ideas.

As with any number, there is a balanced, under-balanced, and over-balanced side to each Master Number. For example, excessive over-balanced 22 energy can indicate someone operating from a base of dark energy, such as an uncompromising, violent, international criminal, like Giuseppe Antonio Doto (otherwise known as Joe Adonis, mob Boss and a leader in the U.S. Underworld before he was deported to Italy in the early 1950s). An extreme example of a person with over-balanced Master Number energy is Kenneth Bianchi (known as the Hillside Strangler; he murdered 10 women in 1977/1978 and was sentenced to life in prison). Neurosis is par for the course with out of control 22 energy.

Under-balanced 22 energy often represents insanity, an entirely impractical viewpoint, and total inefficiency. Balanced 22 energy is tremendously materially rewarding, is far-reaching, and benefits the masses. There is also the reduced, earthbound form of each Master Number (4 in the case of 22: 2+2=4), which is most often lived within when the person lacks the supportive energy to maintain the Master Number energy. Many switch back and forth between mundane and Master Number energy, and some live on the higher level more often than others.

Rarely does a person with many Master Numbers incarnate and, from the beginning, live the balanced side of the numbers. It’s standard to ride the full spectrum of experiences, even risking their lives and bringing great trouble to their loved ones and themselves, before settling into a productive, healthy mode of action. Experience is why people incarnate, and “bad” experiences will forever exist, as long as people are here on Earth to balance karma.

Furthermore, one must understand the full continuum of energy associated with any particular Master Number before they can live within its highest form.

Just as those with much Master Number energy will offer unusual ideas and solutions (realistic and productive, or half-baked depending on the rest of the patterns in the comprehensive charts), it’s also common for them to see and accurately interpret the signs in everyday life that surround each one of us since they have a natural, dual connection to the here and now and the indefinable dimensions. They are in two places (sometimes more than two) at once. This is what frequently makes life so difficult for them. They are surprisingly free of limitations in mind and spirit, yet the reality of this Earth pins them down. Part of their struggle on Earth is because they are very much “from elsewhere” and have a tough time becoming acclimated to fundamental Earth dimension energy. They are not used to being burdened with the laws of this dimension, or perhaps the memory of the energy of the unseen planes is still too real for them.

Extremes are built into Master Numbers, for better or worse, often touching many individuals. They reflect non-earthly inspiration and ideas, either bringing great light, or immeasurable darkness. Instability, unpredictability, idealism, restlessness, acute sensitivity, non-traditional behavior, volatility (think Jack Nicholson in some of his more dramatic roles), intense creativity and charisma, leadership ability, and nervous tension are hallmarks of those with an above average number of Master Numbers (in potent chart positions).

The 7 Wonders of the ancient world (such as the Great Pyramid) are symbolic of the type of magnificence built into Master Number energy. But remember, there is just as much downside as upside in any Master Number as it’s a bridge to a potent energy foreign to this dimension.

Some great examples of known individuals with heavy Master Number energy applied in a positive way (in various, prominent positions in the comprehensive charts) include the following:

*Hugh Hefner, founder of Playboy magazine

*Mick Jagger, lead singer of the Rolling Stones, arguably the greatest (and most profitable) Rock and Roll band of all time.

*Keith Richards, guitarist of the Rolling Stones.

*Robert Plant, lead singer of Led Zeppelin, one of the greatest Rock and Roll bands of all time.

*Bill Blass, one of the most celebrated and influential American clothing designers.

*Ray Bradbury, American writer of over 50 books and known as the a master of sci-fi and fantasy; awarded Grand Master Nebula Award and Writer’s Guild Award.

*Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Scottish writer and creator of the modern detective story and the characters Sherlock Holmes and Dr Watson.

*Doris Duke, American Heiress, one of the wealthiest people in the U.S. in the early 1990s and a notable philanthropist.

*Sir Laurence Olivier, British actor, director, and producer; considered by many to be the greatest actor of the 20th century.

*Meryl Streep, American actress, considered to be one of the best actors of her generation (11 Oscar nominations).

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Numerology Number 11

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Seeing the number 11 over and over in your daily life can mean many things. It’s possible you have prominent “11” in your comprehensive natal and, or timing charts, which would mean the number 11 is especially important to you.

It’s common for people to favor certain numbers, or for certain numbers to mysteriously show up time and again in their lives, without even realizing that the numbers are of great magnitude (i.e., position and, or frequency) in their comprehensive charts.

Or, perhaps it could be purely a subconscious attachment to the number 11 for any number of reasons.

An article dated January 6th, 2006 posted on our blog features more information about the phenomenon of seeing the same numbers over and over (whether it is the number 11 or other numbers).

Our Numerology Decoder Software correctly calculates Master Numbers, can tell you where in your basic charts you have them and what they mean in those positions.

11 is a Master Number, as are all double digit numbers, such as 22, 33, 44, 55, 66, 77, 88, and 99. “Master Number” is an appropriate term because the high side of each Master Number represents rare and exceptional energy originating from outside mundane reality, far from the norm. But too often the low side of these double digits manifests, and operating productively under the energy is like trying to tame a wild horse, especially when the person lacks the discipline and general overall capacity to deal with life’s challenges in the first place. Difficult personal timing as reflected by the collective patterns of time cycles also symbolically prohibits the constructive expression of Master Numbers.

11 is not an easy number, especially for material interests. You want to avoid heavy speculation, for example, if you have a lot of 11 energy in your comprehensive charts.

There is a huge potential for loss in high risk material concerns, depending upon the rest of the patterns in the natal and timing comprehensive charts.

Some of the more challenging traits associated with the number 11 may include any of the following (other considerations in the charts collectively either support or mitigate the energy): Nervous energy, intense fear, unpredictability, unrealistic outlook, lack of discernment, religious dogma, fanaticism, insecurity, hyper-sensitivity, controversial behavior, overly receptive and vulnerable to the point of being an easy target, self-deprecation, low self-worth, health issues, stagnant energy, vacillation, excessive mutability or changeability to the point of constantly riding the fence and lacking true personal convictions, dual nature, excessive idealism and unrealistic spiritual ideas resulting in a cosmic fu-fu-based dogmatic outlook, complex personality, untamed, wild inspiration, emotional volatility, infamy, extreme behavior, or insanity.

On the high side (again, other aspects/patterns collectively either corroborate, moderate, or cancel out the qualities), those with heavy 11 may possess illumination, unparalleled spiritual awareness (if they are otherwise grounded, as symbolized by the rest of the comprehensive charts’ energy), magnetism, vision, prophetic talent, charm, grace, inventive inspiration, and they may have regular revelations to help guide them on their earthly path. They are often natural channels and mediums, messengers for the Gods, and they frequently end up well-known or famous (frequently very famous). Artistic talent is common, as are big ideas, high standards, strong interest in metaphysics and holistic healing, humanitarianism, and public service, often through their work (although it may not appear directly as public service).

11 pertains to heightened awareness and those with plenty of 11 tend to get regular shocking insight about their life and other people. After growing into their talent, it’s not shocking any longer, at least to them. While they are often vulnerable, they see others as they are, beyond the personas and facades. They must learn to trust their insight and avoid going with the expected modes of thought and behavior. Grounding disciplines, such as meditation, exercise, or artistic pursuits serve them well.  Those who try to ignore and deny their piercing illumination risk phobias, obsessions, and even psychosis.

Those with a traditionalist point of view possessing heavy 11 who expect life conditions that appeal to society (out of a desire for approval) are prone to embarrassing life situations. For example, a messy, very public divorce, or a daughter who comes out of the closet in a very public way in a part of the world where expressing one’s true sexual orientation is still significantly frowned upon is typical.

Again, 11 isn’t easy. Those with a potent 11 along with heavy materialistic considerations in the comprehensive charts, sadly, are often challenged with integrity issues. Duplicity and deceit eventually gain them infamy. Kenneth Lay (The former CEO of Enron was convicted of 10 counts of securities fraud in one of the most publicized corruption scandals in U.S. history; Enron’s bankruptcy was the biggest in U.S. history when it was filed in late 2001.) and Manuel Noriega (The Panamanian dictator was accused of taking payoffs from a Colombian drug cartel; in the early 1990s he was convicted and  sentenced to 40 years in U.S. prison.) are two prime examples.

Divine revelation is intimately tied to the number 11. The two columns of the side-by-side number ones comprising the 11 symbolize a channel from higher dimensions.

Unfortunately those with plenty of 11 are too often seen as empty-headed. This is partly because it’s not easy being in two places at once under the 11 (easier with other Master Numbers, such as 22 or 77). They split their energy between the earth plane and other dimensions, often-times preferring the latter. It’s as if in their most previous existences, they spent more time in angelic form instead of in human form. It’s natural for them to psychically tap into the mysterious, unseen levels of being while generating their phenomenal visions. However, they suffer from not spending 100% of their time rooted on the earth plane, and it detracts from a solid “feet on the ground” existence.

Number 11 demands that one lives their light, no matter how “good” or “bad” that light might seem to society. To do otherwise makes their life more difficult than necessary. A compassionate viewpoint and candid way of life, living within their ideals, allows them to effectively spread their vision, fulfilling their earthly mission.

Some great examples of known individuals with heavy 11 energy (in various, prominent positions in the comprehensive charts) include the following:

*Leonardo DiCaprio, American actor, lead in Titanic, the biggest grossing film of all time.

*George Patton, American military commander of WW1 forces. He Claimed he had lived previous lives as, among others, a Greek soldier and a Roman Legionnaire.

*Jackie Stewart, Scottish-American pro race car driver; one of the most famous race car drivers of all time.

*Gene Wilder, American comedian and actor. Joined the army in his 20s and spent two years in the psychiatric hospital ward, which he later drew upon for his role in “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest.”

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Love Connection Strong Enough for Marriage?

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A compatible relationship is what most people strive for, and it’s always nice to hear about a happy couple in a fulfilling relationship.

People wanting to get married would be smart to seriously consider the following questions: What do you seek through marriage? A ceremony to declare your love and a chance to get together with family and loved ones? Romantic partnership permanence? Do you hope it will add something to your connection that you feel is absent at this time?

Marriage was originally intended for practical and economic reasons. People could not survive unless they pooled their skills and resources. Due in part by romantic fantasy perpetrated by movies and fairy tales, marriage today includes unrealistic expectations such as being someone’s “everything” for life. Surprisingly, even with the high divorce rates, this tradition is still a popular choice.

Some say it’s because you need marriage for kids, or that marriage is about commitment. But you can be responsible parents or commit to each other without a marriage license.

Those who oppose marriage contend that legally binding agreements, in an attempt to cement relationships, primarily reflect fear and a lack of trust and are more about money than love.

There is no level of compatibility “good enough” for marriage, because two individuals who are very compatible now may not be in ten years.

Furthermore, marriage is just a legal construct that has nothing to do with unconditional love, which is what many claim to marry for. By unconditional love, we’re referring to a lack of conditions such as “If you do this for me, I’ll do that for you.”

Ideally, marriage would be completely about unconditional love. It wouldn’t be like modern marriage is today.

There would be no unhappiness about a partner not doing what they are expected to do financially, there would be no disputes about having to spend time with the partner’s friends and family, and there would be a lack of expectations in the bedroom, just to name a few.

As we have constantly found in our work, most relationships have time limits, as do friendships and business associations. Sound unromantic? Truth isn’t always romantic, but embracing it will save you a lot of heartache. You don’t have to physically leave a relationship for it to be over, as many married couples will tell you if they are brutally honest. Additionally, children know when their parents are unhappy and all too often the parents end up setting a bad example relating to complacency and deceit.

How can you tell if a romantic connection has seen better days? A few examples include the following: all attempts at spicing up the bond fall flat; one or both partners become increasingly interested dating other people; sex becomes routine and boring or nonexistent; the sexual attraction fades significantly or disappears; one or both feel as if they have learned as much as they were supposed to learn; and it simply doesn’t feel right to stay together.

Life-long, satisfying monogamy is desired by many, but is it natural or realistic? Some couples completely lose interest in sex with each other and settle for companionship or are willing to make great sacrifices and be unhappy in order to avoid ending their relationship, but more and more couples are accepting that most relationships are not meant to last forever.

In our view, love relationships serve primarily as grounds for shared spiritual lessons and goals, rather than the currently accepted, outdated, fear-based sociological standard as outlined above. Many norms in society will be seen as absurd by future generations, and we expect that traditional marriage will be one of them.

An aside, for those who desire to deepen their understanding of their partner (especially before getting married), compatibility analyses involving psychic insight, comprehensive astrology, numerology, and graphology outlining key challenges and rewards is a great way to open the door to more love.

We recommend to those considering marriage to communicate with their partner about commitment, and discuss feelings about money, children, relatives, friends, etc. But don’t expect or even hope that the love would be permanent if you got married, since no couple is compatible enough to meet and exceed the present day expectations of marriage.

“Getting married to make a relationship permanent is like buying a summer home to make summer last forever.”

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Energy Healing and Reiki

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If you are attracted to energy healing now, it’s likely that you were a healer in past lives. Perhaps you did this work, for example, as a Native American, Eastern Indian, Asian, or in a lost civilization such as Atlantis.

Everyone has some healing ability, and some have more than others. This is not a “gift” as some people call it. That would imply that some great force in the Universe arbitrarily gave that one person a “gift” instead of to another person, and things don’t work like that in the spirit world. There’s always a reason why someone has a talent, and that reason is largely because the talent was developed over lifetimes. They’ve done it before, many times.

Regarding Reiki, this is an energy healing modality that can only be transferred from teacher to student because the teacher uses specific symbols to open the student to the Reiki energy.

Those with a natural talent for healing will be able to use the energy more so than those without a talent, but usually those with a talent are drawn to Reiki. It’s possible, in our opinion, that Reiki was one of the first energy healing methods, but it didn’t go by the name of Reiki until it was rediscovered by a monk in Japan long ago. Reiki is a great way to access healing ability.

There are many other healing methods. Some of them are just Reiki or other forms of “hands-on” healing with a new name and techniques added. But all stem from ancient energy healing methods used in Egypt, Atlantis, and elsewhere.

It’s all basically the same thing: Energy/Love/God.

If you would like to practice healing work, we recommend starting with some research about ancient energy healing methods, including the first known methods that were used in India, Egypt, and with Native Americans. Learning about these will stimulate your subconscious memories of when you were a healer in past lives. Follow your intuition and you will be guided about what to do next in order to develop your healing abilities.

By the way, avoid all drugs if you want to keep your intuition clear and open to your healing energy as they will cut you off from “the source” (i.e., White Light, or God) and attract negative energy.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Q & A About Fortune Telling

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A young person wanting to be a professional psychic asked us a series of questions.

First she asked if one type of psychic prediction works better than another.

We answered that each psychic, medium, adviser, or intuitive uses his or her own unique form of psychic prediction. It’s up to the individual to figure out what works best for them.

Some use pure psychic insight alone, but we’ve found those who offer consistently accurate prediction through this mode to be rare.

Others use tarot cards or tea leaves. Still others use palmistry, physiognomy (reading faces/bodies), and many other means.

We’ve found ancient (up through 1000 AD and even beyond into the 1500s) astrology and numerology to be the most accurate forms of delineation and prediction. Modern numerology is also good, but it’s best, in our view, to use it in conjunction with ancient astrology and numerology.

In our experience, by itself, modern psychologically based Western astrology offers inadequate predictive accuracy. It is best used as a psychological personality analysis tool in conjunction with other modes.

We take our twin readings a step further by using channeling and psychic insight to cross check our findings for the highest level of accuracy.

Her next question was if certain people are more suited than others to do psychic prediction.

We told her yes, we believe so. There are those who say everyone has psychic ability and that all you have to do is tap into it. While we agree this is true to a point, only some have the type of natural, consistent psychic ability that allow them to do this type of work professionally.

There are also those who claim to come from a long line of psychics in their family. While having a psychic parent or grandparent may help one to develop their abilities, we feel that psychic ability is a talent one develops over lifetimes, not a “gift” or strictly from one’s genetic makeup. Also, it’s common for professional psychics to have family members who are psychic, but who don’t make known or are unaware of their talents.

If someone doesn’t have strong psychic ability, then at least a heightened intuitive sense helps if they are more of a chartist (e.g., using astrology and, or numerology) since higher-self guidance is necessary to identify the most effective methods. Regular meditation helps to maintain keen intuition.

Additionally, a sharp sense of discernment and a knack for objective analysis is necessary if someone is doing chart work. A lot of it can be learned, but it certainly helps to have a natural aptitude.

Beyond all of that, they must really enjoy it and have the desire and passion to do their best, as with any field.

We feel regular meditation is key if you want to help yourself and others through intuitive work.

All in all, becoming very proficient in this type of work demands an almost around the clock effort and leaves little time for anything else if you strive to deliver excellence to your clients.

She then asked us if it’s possible to predict our own future.

We said yes, but those in our field are likely to tell you that when it comes to matters of the heart, for example, remaining objective isn’t as easy as it is when you’re doing the work for someone else.

She also asked us what we’ve found people’s views to be about psychic prediction.

We told her that we’ve found them to be mixed, largely due to misconceptions or bad experiences. Every field has those who you are best avoiding, and prophesy is no exception.

However, clearly, there are many talented, well-meaning professionals doing the type of work that we do. The more objective and educated a person is about the psychic sciences and predicting personal fate in general, the more likely they are to choose a talented reader and be receptive to the forecasting and prediction of their personal destiny.

What has contributed to a negative view of prediction and metaphysical work? Since the Age of Reason (1600’s AD) astrology and numerology (and psychic work in general) have been in a state of decline in part due to a prevailing condemnation under the guise of “logic,” a distorted redefinition of the meaning of science, all but relegating the sacred science of astrology and numerology to myth and pseudo science.

From that time forward, the science authorities dictated that astrology and numerology (referred to as number mysticism in pre-modern times) weren’t sciences because they didn’t hold up under the scientific method, which involves logically compiling observable, measurable data.

That judgment is unfounded because numerology and astrology are sciences by definition, since results are consistently and empirically drawn from the same sets of circumstances. Science is based on observation.

She was also wondering what is the most interesting thing about being a psychic.

We answered that serious, in-depth study of the ancient sciences of numerology, astrology and tarot (predicting personal fate) is literally a study of the meaning of life.

Regular meditation and becoming proficient with numerology, astrology, and tarot accelerates personal growth and understanding, and demands that one lets go of ego-self (personality) outlooks (everyone has them to some degree). Comprehensive, objective study of these mystic sciences reveal incredible insight about human character and past, present, and future circumstances, making it very difficult to deny a lot of life’s cold, hard truths. Although potentially shocking at times, this raw perspective is ultimately a great asset.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

War and Peace

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It appears as if war has always existed. Even throughout the universe, past-life researchers (going way back), including our own research and visions, report various forms of controversy, discord, and aggression.

Militarily, economically, psychically, or other ways, there is always risk of attack and nothing will change that. You can’t just try to think only positive thoughts and “increase the light within all life everywhere,” to “stop war,” and conflict, as some advocate.

In the beginning of Earth’s recorded history, disputes were usually over basic necessities like good water and soil and hunting rights, then over commodities like gold and silver, and also land. The most common topic of disagreement, then and now, is religion, and it’s likely to continue.

Of course, peace is desirable, as is striving for peace. We agree that peace-marches and war protests have a place in this world, and unfortunately so does war.

Why? Polarities, as ugly as they seem sometimes, are a part of this universe that you can’t change: war and peace, love and hate, unconditional love and conditional love, light and dark, fear and faith, resentment and gratitude, cold and hot, wisdom and ignorance, defeat and victory, growth and decay, rich and poor, and birth and death, just to name some.

In personal relationships, varying amounts (some inherently include more than others) of friction is natural. Everyone has their own unique way to deal with it, but conflict avoidance, submissiveness, and refusing to address differences while projecting an “everything is always wonderful” façade is very emotionally unhealthy. Stuffing, instead of expressing, your energy can also create more conflict by attracting others into your life to act it out for you.

Expecting war to cease existing forever is like expecting to forever avoid arguments and strife in personal relationships: it’s excessively idealistic and just too much to expect. Disagreements, fighting and war will always be part of the natural fabric of existence.

It would be nice if the U.S. could lead simply by setting a peaceful example and avoiding all military involvement, as some suggest. But would the many anti-American forces that have existed for decades follow suit, or would they take advantage of a passive U.S. stance?

Since we have psychically perceived recognized and largely yet unknown, very well organized, anti-American forces continually striving to physically and economically harm the U.S. and its citizens, the abovementioned idea for peace would fail, in our opinion. The result would be the end of America and the freedom that many seem to take for granted; the U.S. can’t afford to take such risks.

In our experience, those people most fervently outspoken against war often are the same ones who refuse to face their own inner conflict, or who have their own extraordinary interpersonal issues that they repress and project onto others.

The peace you want on earth so badly starts within yourself. We’ve also noticed through our work that those who are vehemently against all military action and seem to make war a very personal and emotional issue are the same souls who, in past lives, were the opposite; they were violent, unreasonable, and the cause of much conflict. These former-trouble-makers-turned-peace-advocates are in the process of learning that it’s best to take an unbiased, detached, and fair approach when dealing with others who have different views than their own, especially when they lack understanding of the other side.

Ultimately, there will always be some amount of strife, as utopia doesn’t and will never exist in this dimension. The best you can do is to strive for peace, attempt to resolve all disputes diplomatically and compassionately, yet know that conflict and war are, at times, inevitable.

War is common, strife is customary, and all things happen because of strife and necessity
–Heraclites

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo