Category Archives: Fate and Free Will

New Age Gurus – 20 Qualities That Don’t Make a Good Spiritual Teacher

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Since the early 1980’s we’ve explored metaphysical and New Age offerings. We’ve compiled this list based on our experience to help you navigate the metaphysical marketplace.

The following is an extended list of characteristics that, although perceived by much of the population as inherently “spiritual,” do not automatically make someone a good spiritual teacher.

*Membership to a sect/religion based in a foreign country

*The appearance of a wise, old sage; older doesn’t always mean wiser

*Musical/artistic ability

*The ability to offer an authentic-looking, heartfelt cry on cue

*Having attracted a lot of money/contributions through their adherents

*A foreign accent

*Enigmatic looks

*Lots of press

*Expensive fees

*Expensive seminars and retreats

*Mention of having studied under a “guru” in an exotic foreign country

*Specializing in mysterious disciplines that are difficult, if not impossible to pronounce

*Being a “best-selling” author

*An appearance on Oprah

*Appearing on other national TV/radio shows

*Having testimonials/endorsements from other “spiritual authorities” (i.e., often self-proclaimed)

*A powerfully effective communicator/stage presence

*Having “cured” themselves of a terminal disease through their magic powers that you can have too if you would just pay their fees and buy their products

*Guaranteeing success in manifesting what you want (especially if it contrasts with who you really are/your true path)

*Cheer-leading ability

*Denying reincarnation and karma (usually because accepting these basic spiritual concepts would negate some or a lot of what they preach)

*“Never” saying anything “negative” and always smiling

*Written communication that appears to sound profoundly deep, is difficult to decipher, and that leaves you thinking, “What does that mean?” after the feel-good feeling fades

*Poetic ability

*The ability to make you feel warm and fuzzy inside

*Claims of having communicated directly with God, or guides, or other spiritual beings–especially when the “communications” are sometimes biased-sounding. For example, someone claiming that “God” told them a certain politician/political initiative or corporate initiative is evil, or that one must, for instance, abstain from sex for the rest of his/her life in order to reach “nirvana”

*The willingness to jump on the New Age bandwagon just because a spiritual concept is popular

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Getting Started with Spiritual Studies

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There are many good “spiritual teachers” and “gurus” in existence, but in order for someone to be a good spiritual teacher/guru, he/she must have inherent wisdom, be relatively free of biases and the tendency to push students into a dogmatic program of instruction, and have gone through his/her own extensive explorations leading to deep understanding of the topic he/she is claiming expertise.

Contrary to popular perception, the following don’t automatically make someone a good spiritual teacher: robes; beads; beards; long gray hair; a family history of healers or readers; a PhD, M.D., or other advanced traditional (or non-traditional) degree; charisma; a large following; a celebrity following.

The following do make someone a good spiritual teacher: recommendations/testimonials by people you trust; communicating relevant information clearly and simply; a method of teaching that persuades students to find their own answers; a humble disposition; being able to admit that the teacher is sometimes taught by the student; a commitment to constantly exploring and testing relevant theories and discarding those proven to be invalid; acknowledging that there are seldom “quick-fix” solutions  to life’s most important challenges; and freely referring the student to another teacher if he/she is unable to provide the student with what they seek.

All you really need is yourself, a desire to learn, and a sincere interest in the subjects you’re drawn to. You may be thinking you need a structured system to teach you (what you already know on a super-conscious level) because this is what most of us have been led to believe from traditional education systems. Not so.

If you are comfortable learning through self-study and experimentation, having someone point you in the right direction is a perfect start.

Start by meditating. This will help you to become centered and to be able to feel what is right for you in the exploration of your spirituality. You must be disciplined and practice meditating every day to fully benefit. Set aside time, at least 10 minutes to start, in the morning or evening. Don’t have time? Turn off the TV and avoid people who aren’t for your highest good.

Next, go to your local library or metaphysical bookstore and look for books that appeal to you. Through trial and error you’ll find what you need. It also helps to read the reviews for books on the subjects you like on amazon.com. The good books will be mentioned and recommended, but keep in mind people can potentially be biased or have an agenda when writing reviews. Also know that a best-selling book only means that it is popular, not that it automatically includes complete  truth and wisdom. Trust your intuition above all.

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Psychic Prediction, Karma & Fate – You Can’t Rewrite the Karmic Play of Life After Incarnating

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You can react to your karma and fate, but you can’t delete it.

Also, fate and destiny are the same thing. Some creative, modern astrologers suggest otherwise, but fate and destined events and circumstances in people’s lives have always existed.

The good news is that you have free will to deal with it all and also to create as you see fit, as long as your desire is within your karmic blueprint.

How do you know what your fate is? As humans, we naturally set goals and take action in accordance with whatever feels the most “right.” For example, if you’re 5’3” tall, can’t jump, and you don’t like team sports, you are not going to try to become an NBA basketball player. Therefore, it’s most likely not your destiny.

There are no windows of opportunity that we are aware of, while incarnated, in regards to altering your destiny and karma. You can’t skip or add scenes and re-write the play of life while on “stage” acting it out. You (your soul) determines your karmic path – the “good” and the “bad”- before birth, and you (your personality) plays out that role after birth.

Why? Because your soul wants to grow and learn from specific lessons while incarnated. Just because your personality doesn’t like something that’s destined for you doesn’t mean you can pass over it.

We have witnessed, however, psychic guidance playing a role in helping to avoid danger, especially if a person is not meant to experience the event. For example, a psychic consultant tells a client to avoid a flying on a particular day, the client consequently changes her flight and therefore avoids a plane crash. From our perspective she was fated to take the psychic’s advice and avoid the flight, thus continue living.

Another example is how, in a spring 2001 predictive consultation, we recommended that a Manhattan entrepreneur client avoid opening a tentatively planned  new NYC restaurant in September 2001. Since he followed our advice and didn’t open the new place in September 2001, it appears as if, despite being fated for challenges in autumn 2001, he wasn’t destined for business failure involving significant financial loss.

We just happened to be part of the process by which he avoided disaster (9-11).

Also, no psychic is 100% accurate. Over the years, we’ve had a lot of readings with many different psychics, and a good number were very talented and accurate, but the majority were less than 65% accurate in predicting future events and indicating the precise timing of those circumstances. If you want a higher degree of accuracy, we suggest numerology and pre-modern astrology in conjunction with psychic insight.

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

New Age Spirituality: Idealism vs. Realism

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We certainly appreciate the value of inspirational messages that are rooted in truth. However, at the present time, an over-abundance of spiritual misinformation is flooding the metaphysical market by those whom we call the New Age Cheerleaders.

They’re usually well-meaning, but denying the reality that adversity is an unavoidable part of everyone’s life, that it has a divine purpose, and instead  promoting false promises is a disservice to consumers. Ultimately, a lot of the excitement and hype only serves to increase book sales and seminar profits and can do more damage than good.

Throughout the past 20 plus years of being involved in the self-help, New Age, and metaphysical industry, we’ve seen it time and time again: participants of inspirational seminars and devotees of rosy passages in best-selling “spiritual” books grab hold of the false claims that the “experts” offer (“the perfect relationship and infinite abundance are right around the corner for you—it’s your birthright!”) and end up being disappointed after all the hype has faded. Too many “experts” claim, “…you can ‘create’ whatever you want and be whatever you want.” Based on our extensive research, we’ve found this to be false.

Further popular myths in the New Age movement include the following: “The era we are in is more ‘potent’ than ever. Therefore, we are more able, than ever before, to create what we want–we can have it all;” “We are moving from a time of ‘cause and effect’ to a time of ‘resonant causation,’ which means that we can now create whatever we want through the power of intent;” “It’s possible to dodge the karma you don’t feel like dealing with through the power of forgiveness;” “Astrology and numerology aren’t applicable to those who have increased their vibration through love and wisdom.”

Many of the Cheerleaders claim that fate doesn’t exist or that it is only applicable for select parts of life. In our opinion, they lack the right to deny the theory of destined life conditions until they first disprove the predictive sciences of numerology and astrology.

Hypothesis or theory can’t be proven, it can only be invalidated. Numerology and astrology have yet to be shown scientifically invalid. In order to accomplish this, two things are necessary: long-term, objective observation of the circumstances in the lives of many people and extensive personality and predictive work involving these ancient sciences.

Until then, the Cheerleaders are denying a more than 2000 year esoteric tradition (which has been wrongfully dishonored by the world’s organized religions–one of the greatest spiritual injustices in recorded history–and greatly distorted by the 17th/18th century Age of Reason/Rationalism) involving the prediction of life circumstances through numerology and astrology. In doing so and promoting their baseless promises of the power to “create” anything anyone wants and erase life challenges, they lead astray those seeking wisdom.

However trendy it is these days to reject the idea of predestination (events that are unavoidable), our research shows that fated circumstances (rewarding and challenging) are part of everyone’s life. Since 1992 we’ve scrutinized the numerology and astrology charts, and observed the representative circumstances (past and present) of thousands of people. Furthermore, whether a person believes in karma and fate or not, they are still bound by it, as we constantly witness.

Once you see, as we have, the constant repetition of numerological and astrological patterns entirely corresponding to circumstances in peoples’ lives, it is easy to stop rejecting the concept of fate.

Furthermore, though we are grateful for our guides and angels in spirit form and regularly work with Archangels, just because certain information feels good, is quoted by someone famous, or is “channeled” doesn’t mean it’s true for this dimension.

Additionally, the so-called divine messages of many popular metaphysical teachings too often get distorted through the human filters called the ego-self and conscious mind. The “I made millions/cured my disease/met the perfect mate; you can do it too!” messages beg for provisions such as, “…however, it may not be your karma and fate to accomplish what I did, so I can’t guarantee the same success I’ve had…”

We respectfully and compassionately would like to remind New Age inspirational authors and speakers that fate, dharma, and karma must be included in New Age communications (even if they are just indirectly alluded to). Otherwise, as we’ve seen, fictional inspirational communications can unfortunately send people down the primrose path of illusion and leave them utterly disappointed, not to mention further discredit the New Age movement.

Instead of misleading people into thinking they can erase their tough karma and create anything they want, we feel more emphasis should be placed on the following philosophy: much of life is karmic and fated, the “good” and the “bad,” there’s no avoiding what is meant to be, but there’s good news: you have free will to react the way you choose to your life’s predestined events and make the most of your time here on earth.

What exactly is the benefit of working with predictive numerology, astrology, and past life regression aside from constantly seeing fate in action? The benefits include self-knowledge, spiritual growth through awareness, wisdom, the ability to plan for the future, the understanding that order exists in the universe and that there are no victims, that life is void of randomness, and that there is meaning to everyone’s life.

In doing so, you’ll also find that the ancient mystics and Gnostics were right: Fate cannot be cheated, but it can be viewed in a way that makes life a heck of a lot easier.

Why do we repeat what we do about destiny and free will over and over? We feel these ideas are very valuable and that it’s our duty to share this sacred information and to expose New Age myths and misleading practices.

We want to share what we and multitudes of mystics throughout history have found as truth because with awareness comes clarity, and with clarity comes a more rewarding life.

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

How to Know What is Fated in Your Life

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Meditation is one of the best ways to escape an over-active mind, become centered, and connect with one’s spiritual self. When you are centered you are better able to intuitively know when something is for your highest good.

Other ways to become more aligned with your higher-self, thus more aware of the next best step in all areas of life include the following: spend more time alone; avoid TV; avoid excessive alcohol; avoid drugs (even occasional use clouds perception); avoid junk food/emotional eating; avoid sugar and caffeine (promotes mind-scattering and the numbing of feelings); exercise regularly; read more; get more sleep; and spend time in nature. All of these ideas will help you to detach from your ego-self.

Various forms of meditation exist, yet the commonly acknowledged purist and most efficient way involves simple intense focus. Sitting comfortably in a chair or on the floor with your back straight, eyes closed, breathing relaxed, and your focus intently on your chest plate for twenty minutes or longer will help you detach from the conscious mind and be more in touch with your subconscious mind and higher-self.

This meditative process also helps to release a natural feel-good opiate from the brain. These endorphins have been clinically proven to aid in healing.

Don’t be discouraged if it takes you weeks or even months to become proficient in meditation. With practice, you’ll get the hang of it and benefit greatly. You’ll also instinctively know what to do and when to do it. You’ll eventually stop wasting time on things that are not relevant to your highest path because they’ll seem insignificant.

Alternative forms of meditation include running, walking, swimming, reading, knitting, drawing, painting, writing, and other activities that allow you to get into a “zone.”

It’s also important to consider when you first desire something. Timing really is everything, and comprehensive predictive numerology and astrology provide invaluable insight into all areas of life.

Numerology and astrology are two ancient, empirical sciences that provide self-knowledge and peace of mind. They can also help you be aware of and prepare for challenging and rewarding times in your life, help you to further understand why you are here on earth, and to know what type of action is best taken at what time. It’s best to consult with an expert since there are many aspects to consider, but one of the more important timing indicators can be tracked easily by anyone. It’s called Moon Void of Course.

There are specific times every few days when the Moon is in between signs, or Void of Course. New ideas originated, plans made, or people met during this time usually turn out differently, if at all. Following the information in our Moon Void of Course article will help save you time and money and be much smarter about your decisions. Please keep in mind that there are many, many important astrological and numerological considerations, but the above-mentioned one is a good starting point.

“If you do not make the mistake of many and set up your will in opposition to Divine law, you will fulfill that high destiny for which you were chosen.” –George Washington

No matter how mundane or ordinary one’s life appears, every person’s path is an extraordinarily unique, and necessary part of collective universal destiny.

While those who act in opposition to “Divine” law, in our opinion, are fated to do so as part of chosen paths by their spiritual selves, and as symbolized by the patterns in their numerology and astrology charts, those who strive for more in life are also fulfilling what is to be.

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Fate and Free Will: Wisdom Only Deletes Some Karma

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A book’s messages don’t have to be metaphysically valid for the book to be on best-seller lists. Some modern best-selling metaphysical books are filled
with spiritual truth and some are virtually void of it.

Today’s popular New Age communications commonly contain heaps of pure inspiration with very low doses of ancient wisdom, perhaps due to our society’s penchant for seeking quick-fixes.

Let’s face it, “consciously create what you want, the life of your dreams, now!” inspires a lot more book sales than, “you can only consciously create that which is aligned with your higher-self’s earthly plan.”

Many New Age authors and publishers realize that including the cold, hard realities of life on Earth (karma, dharma, challenging fate, etc.) will hinder book sales.

Therefore, the current trend is to market books full of motivational messages such as “you can do it!” “abundance is your birthright,” and “rid yourself of your disease easily!” while excluding the spiritual facts of life.

Yes, wisdom can allow you to avoid some karma, but to say that you can erase any type of karma your heart desires is like saying you can turn winter into spring. Spring will arrive whether you “consciously create” it or not.

However, if an undesirable circumstance or event is part of fate, no amount of wisdom will blank it out. You can’t change the dead of winter into summer no matter how much you pay your guru.

Nonetheless, if you’re in a position to avoid exercising your free will in a particular way, wisdom can erase limited amounts of karma.

For instance, a parent exerts her free will to hug her children instead of mentally abusing them, which feels more natural for that parent to do. In this case, that parent has just taken the high road and told the universe that she desires to avoid that particular karmic arrangement (that her kids have most likely
agreed to before incarnating).

A mystic may say that even the effort by the parent to be more loving instead of abusive is the karma of all involved in the situation. Dharma is played out, karma is balanced, and everyone benefits (spiritually speaking).

More importantly, souls who choose (before incarnating) to be on the receiving end of abuse are going to experience it whether a parent dishes it out or not. A relative, sibling, friend of the family, neighborhood bully, classmate, or some other person will do his part to help fulfill fate.

Again, all the wisdom in the world won’t negate the major karmic dates with destiny that our souls choose before incarnating. A key objective of incarnating is spiritual growth and in order to do that, there must be challenge. Challenge is also necessary so that the more enjoyable life circumstances can be recognized and appreciated.

We like the phrase “wisdom deletes karma,” but we think it’s more accurately said this way: “Wisdom deletes some karma and direct life experience wipes out and balances the majority of karma.”

Fate is fate and you can’t dodge it just because you find select circumstances distasteful.

On the brighter side, you have free will to react to karma and make the most of your life within the bounds of your fate.

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Movie Review – What the Bleep – Enlightening But Short on Spiritual Truths

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Overall, we enjoyed the movie “What the Bleep….” Some parts of it we responded with, “Well said!” Other parts, “You forgot some ideas!” And still others, “What the #%*$!”

Some of the movie’s key points that we appreciated the most are as follows: blame and victimization are of no use; self-understanding and taking full responsibility for personal circumstances and behavior is integral to self-actualization; everyone has the power to influence his/her physical, emotional, and mental health through thoughts and feelings; it’s been clinically proven that stress, for example, contributes to illness (not that clinical proof is necessary to acknowledge the effects of stress or positive thinking/feeling); self-actualization relies on the ability to detach from and leave behind addictions, expectations, dramas, and desires of all kinds (all part of the ego-self) so that one can more closely align oneself with the spiritual self.

We especially enjoyed Ramtha’s commentary about romance and the pursuit of romance being a personal addiction for many people.

However, it’s interesting that the financier of “What the Bleep…” is a Buddhist and that there was no mention of reincarnation in this spiritually oriented film. Reincarnation is one of the most important spiritual concepts (in Buddhism especially) and it is intimately tied to free will, karma (what goes around comes around), dharma (what one must do in this life), and fate (predetermined circumstances and events).

One of the experts featured in the movie is Dr Joe Dispenza (a chiropractor), who has authored several scientific articles on the close relationship between brain chemistry, neurophysiology and biology, and their roles in physical health. He has a Doctor of Chiropractic Degree from Life University in Atlanta, Georgia.

Dr Dispenza says “I wake up in the morning, and I consciously create my day the way I want it to happen…When I create my day, and out of nowhere, little things happen that are so unexplainable, I know that they are the process and the result of my creation. And the more I do that, the more I build a neural net, in my brain, that I accept that that’s possible. So if we’re consciously designing our destiny, if we’re consciously, from a spiritual standpoint, throwing in what the idea that our thoughts can affect our reality or affect our life, because reality equals life.”

While we admire many of the movie’s messages and agree with the idea that “Human beings have the potential to shape their own experience for better or worse…” we strongly question the message that “…unlimited possibilities are truly within our grasp (in this lifetime).” This implies that a person can erase karmic circumstances in his/her life and live in a never-ending utopia, fulfilling all ego-self desires and skipping the important, tough lessons in life. To be perfectly candid, our cosmic fu-fu detectors are sounding on high while digesting that last bit.

Jeffery B. Satinover M.D. (a former practicing psychiatrist) is also featured in the movie. He has completed a master’s degree as a member of the Theoretical Condensed Matter Physics group and Yale’s newly-established W. H. Keck Foundation Center for Quantum Information Physics.

In his book “Reflections of the Nature of God,” he says The worldview that modern science has depended on, for the most part, is that if you have 100 percent knowledge of an initial condition, then all subsequent conditions are known as well. If this were true, there would be no such thing as free will, whether human or divine. God himself would be a merely passive observer who not only doesn’t but couldn’t have an effect on the world. And human beings couldn’t have an effect either, because if all physical events are in effect, laid out ahead of time, like a complex play in billiards, then nothing one does can alter the outcome. It’s all completely determined.”

Its great how he suggests that we free will exists, but our position is that he’s too haphazardly blending physical science and spirituality; they are two distinct, separate domains.

We feel Dr Satinover also misunderstands the role of free will while incarnated and how much we have before we incarnate. He also seems to reject the philosophy that fated events are necessary in order to learn specific lessons.

For instance, a person can’t “create” a wonderfully harmonious relationship with his/her father if one of that person’s karmic lessons (that they chose while in spirit form) is to endure an abusive relationship with that parent.

He goes on to say, “This is the fundamental premise of the modern worldview. However, it turns out and what modern physics has now demonstrated is, that’s not true. That actually, at the most fundamental level, all the most important physical processes are, in part, determined by ‘factors’ that have no detectable presence in the physical world. A range of possible outcomes are determined mechanically, but untold numbers of decisions are being made by ‘something’ that from among these possibilities selects every actual outcome…”

He’s alluding to the idea of a higher power, or God and the importance of its influence and we applaud this, but he again carelessly mixes physical science with spirituality. Doing so is like saying that because a circumstance is so in a dream state, that we should expect it to be the same way in waking hours.

Different dimensions have different sets of laws, just as we have mostly probabilities while incarnated on earth and more possibilities while in spirit form planning our next physical existence.

We shape and contribute to those same possibilities every day. We believe that we design our next lifetimes by every thought, intent, and action in this life (and previous ones), yet we also feel that it’s impossible to manifest what one wants (on a personality level) now, in this life, if those desires don’t match one’s current life blueprint.

Both Dr Dispenza and Dr Satinover in “What the Bleep…” imply that the universe is a huge quantum sea of possibilities and that since this is the case that we should be able to create that which we want and leave the rest behind.

This is akin to a drunk believing s/he can manifest absolute sobriety for the night an hour after s/he downs five stiff drinks; it’s too late to “create” something (instant sobriety) after an alternative is set in motion/secured (intoxication).

Most well-respected quantum physicists today (those with PhD’s in quantum physics) along with the founding fathers of quantum physics,who also believed themselves to be mystics (including Erwin Schrodinger, Max Planck, and Niels Bohr), firmly held that it’s erroneous to group physics and mysticism in the same dimension. Planck said that trying to merge physics and mysticism “makes no sense at all,” since spirituality is associated with the source of everything on a soul level and quantum physics relates to the most infinitesimal level of the physical world of matter and energy.

Good spiritual teachers acknowledge that there’s a difference between the ego-self and the spiritual self. The ego-self wants to satisfy all of its earthly desires. The spiritual self is here to learn and grow. Meanwhile, most everyone wants “more” out of life on a personality level. Often, ego-self demands (“perfect love,” “better family relations,” “more money,” etc.) clash with “what is.” Said differently, you can’t always get what you want.

Please understand, we agree that it’s possible to influence our realities and even create as we wish to a certain extent while incarnated (if it’s within the boundaries of personal destiny), but we feel it’s impossible to skip difficult karma. In other words, you can’t cheat fate and you can’t just erase personal challenges because you don’t like them.

On the one hand, the experts in the movie “What the Bleep…” emphasize the idea that everybody is fully able to create their own realities to match the desires of their personalities.

At the same time, one of the more important (and we feel more truthful) messages of the film is about the idea that the ultimate spiritual goal is to leave behind/detach from personal addictions of all kinds, expectations, dramas and desires (the ego-self) so that one’s personality can more closely meld with the spiritual self.

That’s quite a contrast in philosophies! It appears as if the film is promoting the message, “dump the tough lessons and karma and create what you want now in this life, it’s yours!” while saying simultaneously, “free yourself from your desires!” The former is the antithesis of spirituality and the latter is a sacred ancient spiritual concept.

In brief, the movie “What the Bleep…” addresses some key aspects of quantum physics (while ignoring opposing quantum theories such as“hidden variables”) and some important spiritual ideas (while ignoring the concepts of karma, dharma, reincarnation,and fate), and blends them together in a feel-good mixture of cosmic truth and New Age fu-fu. The connection between the provided metaphysical concepts and select laws of quantum physics is questionable at best.

Aside from a few spiritual fallacies and mixed messages in “What the Bleep…,” we really liked it. In striving for spiritual awareness, we must think far outside conventional earthly thinking in order to begin to grasp universal truths. This film is a big step in the right direction.

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Free Will & Manifestation – How Karma, Fate and Predestination Block Your Efforts

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Prior to years of comprehensive study and constant objective empirical research through ancient metaphysical delineation and predictive sciences (since 1992 involving the numerology and astrology charts of over 20,000 different people), we too mistakenly believed we could create anything our ego-selves desired.

Our studies and research allow us to conclude that an extremely high percentage of everyone’s major life circumstances and particulars are unavoidably etched in the rock of fate.

We consistently and accurately outline key conditions and experiences in anyone’s future (provided we have all birth data) including “gurus” who claim they are able to “consciously create” 100% of their realities, matching their conscious demands, as they live their lives.

Once you have witnessed, as we have, the continual recurrence of patterns in the numerology and astrology charts completely representing situations in peoples’ lives, you will stop rejecting the idea of fate.

An ideal love life, unlimited financial abundance, perfect health, constantly harmonious personal relationships and more would be nice, but we are now entirely certain that it “ain’t gonna happen” if it’s not part of the path that your soul mapped out before you incarnated.

For example, despite what you might see on TV about finding a compatible romantic partner, like the best-selling author promoting her book about finding the perfect husband in less than a year (“I did it and you can too!”), everyone’s karma is different and what works for one person (because it fits his/her karmic blueprint) may fail for the next (being outside of his/her earthly plan).

“Learn valuable lessons about commitment and betrayal by experiencing a difficult spouse? Forget it! Instead, I’ll create the perfect relationship!” “Endure a period of financial limitations to learn about financial acumen? Nah, I’ll create infinite abundance now and forever live the high life!”

Unfortunately (for the ego-self), the universe doesn’t work that way. Dodging your fate isn’t an option.

But let’s not forget free will. You have free will to take the right action at the right time, allow your earthly personality to play its role in manifesting your destiny (including your ego-self desires that align with it), react to your life circumstances, and improve and influence your situation to the best of your ability within the confines of your fate.

Along these lines, free will also enables everyone to help shape their future lives through every thought, intent, and action in their present lives.

If you want an ideal as possible relationship, you can exercise your free will and do things to prepare for this. However, we believe that even doing what feels right feels right because it’s part of your pre-destined path. You could do something that isn’t part of your earthly plan, such as drop out of society, move to the wilderness and live off the land, but you probably wouldn’t because it doesn’t feel right for you to do.

Perhaps most importantly, it would be nice if we could all have “perfect love,” but this would miss the objective of the majority of our relationships on earth: personal growth. A predetermined degree of challenge is necessary in order to learn the lessons for which we incarnate.

As far as releasing your love karma through spiritual exercises, this sounds like wishful, spiritual woo-woo thinking to us.

The only exercise we know of to do this is the exercise of experiencing what you need to experience in real life. In other words, forget the notion of being able to cheat fate, despite the fact that most “love experts” suggest otherwise. We caution you to be skeptical of spiritual solutions that appear to be quick fixes.

The good news is that you can ease, but not evade, your karma by acceptance, forgiveness, and unconditional love. For instance, you can’t erase the lifelong disharmony between you and your siblings, but you can lighten the load by how you view and react to it.

Although not always easy, the best methods toward personal and spiritual growth include the following: achieve self-awareness so that you understand your highest path; take the right action at the right time to manifest your destiny; embrace all personal challenges including all difficult people as a necessary part of the growth process; forgive yourself and all others; love yourself and all others unconditionally; live your life knowing that all energy you put out will eventually come back to you; and know that you can’t always get what you want, but that every experience serves a valuable purpose.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Predicting Marriage with Astrology

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It is possible to predict the approximate date of a solid love connection (and the inherent rewards/challenges therein) if the numerologist and/or astrologer has the complete birth data of the person in question. Full legal birth name (exactly as it is on the birth certificate), exact time and date of birth, and exact location are necessary. Predicting marriage with astrology is a different matter–the marriage ceremony is secondary to the love connection.

Handwriting samples help also, since it may finally be time (timing is everything) to recognize hidden fears and or defenses that completely go against conscious wishes.

Based on years of research and objective observation, it’s obvious to us that timing really is everything. You can be in the middle of an entire football arena filled with prospective matches and if your timing is not conducive to a love connection, you’ll remain single. We’ll say it again: Timing is everything. Not the false promises of permanent-romantic-bliss-as-a-birthright notions (fairytale archetypes) borrowed from movies, TV shows, and books that we’ve embraced our entire lives, and certainly not the new age false belief that we can “create” anything our ego-selves want any time we want, but timing. Destined timing, whether it be connected to love life, career, money or any other part of life, is unique to each person and has everything to do with karma, reincarnation and what your soul planned for your personality this time around. Of course, romance is often an added bonus, but our relationships appear to serve us primarily as ultimate platforms for personal growth, as well as helping us accomplish other important earthly objectives.

Does the philosophy of predestination negate the concept of free will? Absolutely not; we use our free will to manifest our destinies. Simply by taking the right action at the right time, whatever feels most “right,” while centered and connected to our highest truth, aligns us with our destinies.

By the way, we don’t specifically incarnate to marry, but to have relationships. Even though our society places great importance on the act of getting married, what’s more important is learning your lessons with the key players that you’ve contracted with, so to speak, before incarnating.

Whether or not you make a relationship “legal” is usually insignificant from a spiritual viewpoint. Your charts indicate when you’re likely to have significant relationships, yet a celebration of a relationship, such as a wedding or ceremony, is also seen in the charts.

As far as mapping your life circumstances and probabilities yourself without tools such as numerology and astrology, it’s possible If you’re very psychic. Being psychic will help you get your own answers, but the timing of specific events (even for professional psychics) is difficult to pinpoint on pure intuition alone. This may be because psychic impressions of specific events and the timing of such events originate from realms outside fourth dimensional time and space. Developing your psychic ability in conjunction with using tried and tested metaphysical tools (such as those we offer on our website) allows you to get a stronger sense of your fate.

This priceless heightened perspective provides peace of mind and gives you an edge in planning and you’ll find that the study of these ancient mystical sciences eventually becomes a study of the meaning of life.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Psychic Prediction and the Lottery

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Is winning the lottery pure chance or is it destined? Seasoned predictive numerologists and astrologers will tell you that no circumstance in anyone’s life is completely random. Psychic prediction and the lottery is a popular topic. It’s also a popular fantasy; actually predicting the results of the lottery is a different matter.

Auspicious times in people’s lives are easily seen in numerology and astrology charts. The far less prosperous times are also visible. The collections of considerations comprising patterns in numerology and astrology charts represents all significant life circumstances.

At the same time, it’s impossible to identify exactly how to win money during any specific time (what numbers to play, etc.) for any one person, but instead, it’s possible to say when a person is most likely to win. There are definite times in everyone’s life when more money comes in than goes out and other times when more money goes out than comes in. In fact, it’s often easier to identify through the charts when a person will have financial challenges and when they won’t be lucky.

Furthermore, everyone has their own unique periods of time throughout life when financial success is much more likely to manifest by taking the right action at the most opportune time.

For example, ten different real-estate investors (all with similar experience, intelligence, etc.) in the same city are, at the same time, aggressively buying new properties to expand their companies. The tremendous success of three of them and the moderate success of the other seven has everything to do with individual timing and karma, and nothing to do with luck.

Generally, if the cause of a particular fortunate event is not clear, it’s common for people to call it luck.

People get lucky because they make their own luck and the timing supports it.

Making one’s luck may include placing the winning numbers in a lottery, spending many years in school to obtain a well paying job, or working tirelessly for 40 years to build a successful business.

What also may appear as luck are rewards (“good karma”) from past lives, such as being born into a family with loving, supportive parents. Our lives are mostly what we, as souls, make them before incarnating; many key life events are predestined. How we, as personalities, deal with and embrace our individual life lessons is what life is all about.

In examining the numerology and astrology charts of people who have won large lottery jackpots, the aspects reflect what their personal experiences will be with suddenly having a lot of cash. For example, if it’s their karma to have “negative experiences”, such as bankruptcy (common with lotto winners) or attracting many opportunists who are after their money, their charts will reflect this. Or, if it’s their destiny to use the money wisely, retain their wealth, and to create charitable organizations, the charts will represent these probabilities.

Some people have asked us if it’s possible to get the winning lottery numbers in meditation or through consulting with a psychic. If it were possible, many psychics would be multi-millionaires. Perhaps it’s not possible because winning such a large sum of money would alter a person’s life blueprint so drastically that they would miss the destined and karmic (“good” and “bad”) experiences they’re here for. It seems likely that it’s only possible to get a glimpse of the winning numbers in meditation if it’s your destiny and karma to win.

It’s also interesting to note that handwriting analysis can identify if a person is blocking prosperity in their life. Although a person may feel that they consciously deserve more abundance, their subconscious (which rules over the consciousness) may feel like they don’t deserve it, thus they sabotage circumstances in their lives that equate to having more money.

Comprehensive numerology and astrology allow us to identify the best times to be lucky. It’s up to us to get to know ourselves well enough to know what type of plan is for our highest good and what is not. “Success” comes by taking the path most suited  to us. All of us have our own unique key experiences in life to learn and understand; this is what matters most.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo