Twin Flame Soul Mate: More Myth Than Reality

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Many of us want to find our “soul mate,” a term often used to imply that there is one perfect partner for each individual. Metaphysically defined, a soul mate is simply someone you have known in a prior existence. Each person may have hundreds or even thousands of soul mates.

Edgar Cayce, one of the most successful psychics and medical intuitives ever in the United States, stated many times that there isn’t just one person out there who is perfect for you. He expressed in his readings that there are many love relationship possibilities for each person.

When you meet a soul mate, you may feel like you know the person but you can’t quite place from where. Your souls knew each other in a different time and place, although your present personalities usually don’t remember the details. You may have been lovers, siblings, relatives, friends, acquaintances, coworkers, or even enemies. You may instantly like or even love the person, or you may instantly dislike him or her.

Soul mate relationships that develop into love relationships take many different forms, depending on the karmic reasons the couple has reunited again. The present life interaction also depends on how much of their own baggage they’ve worked through, how much they take responsibility for their behavior and their lives, and how aware and honest they are with themselves and others.

There is always a reason for two souls reuniting. It may be due to unfinished business, such as one owing the other in some important way. It may be in the form of a project they are to complete together, such as the birth of and caring for a child. Sometimes it’s a test, to see if they can interact without hurting each other.

Some souls reunite simply for the purpose of enjoying each other again and have little or no negative karma to work through. They may have earned this relationship of harmony through many lifetimes of working through their conflicts.

These are the kind of relationships sometimes portrayed in romance novels. Many of us fantasize about having these kinds of relationships, where there’s little conflict and an excess of love, admiration, acceptance, and respect. Few of us, unfortunately, experience them.

A twin flame or soul has been defined as a soul who was created at the same time as you and who may be your “other half.” Based on our research we feel this definition of twin souls is the result of earthbound thinking. We don’t “pair off” with only one partner in the spirit world. Pairing off here on Earth and hoping for a lifetime relationship with the same partner often seems motivated by a fear of being alone and/or a fear of abandonment.

A different definition of a twin soul could be a soul mate with which you have shared many lifetimes and, through those experiences, perfected the relationship. This soul is one of the most ideal soul mates for you—assuming you both get your current personalities and hang-ups out of the way.

In his book Edgar Cayce on Soul Mates, Kevin J. Todeschi suggests yet another definition: “The primary distinction between soul mates and twin souls is that soul mates are brought together as a means of assisting both people in soul growth and twin souls often come together in an effort to achieve a joint task or a united work.”

Cayce also indicated that twin souls are not always romantically involved and that there is more than one twin soul for each person.

Hence, while most people associate a soul mate with romance, the main purpose has to do with personal growth, often through trials and challenges. In fact, many of our clients who have been in soul mate relationships say they are hesitant to get into another one, yet they realize that they’re here on Earth primarily to learn, not just to get what feels good. Additional information about soul mates and twin flames can be found here.

How do you know you’ve found a relationship soul mate? Sometimes it involves intense feelings from the very start, other times it’s not so obvious. Are you sexually compatible? Is there lots of passion in your relationship? What about trust and mutual respect? Do you share the same views about love and relationships? It’s possible to determine how compatible you are with another person through numerology, astrology, handwriting analysis, and past life regression.

Copyright © 2005 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Free Will & Manifestation – How Karma, Fate and Predestination Block Your Efforts

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Prior to years of comprehensive study and constant objective empirical research through ancient metaphysical delineation and predictive sciences (since 1992 involving the numerology and astrology charts of over 20,000 different people), we too mistakenly believed we could create anything our ego-selves desired.

Our studies and research allow us to conclude that an extremely high percentage of everyone’s major life circumstances and particulars are unavoidably etched in the rock of fate.

We consistently and accurately outline key conditions and experiences in anyone’s future (provided we have all birth data) including “gurus” who claim they are able to “consciously create” 100% of their realities, matching their conscious demands, as they live their lives.

Once you have witnessed, as we have, the continual recurrence of patterns in the numerology and astrology charts completely representing situations in peoples’ lives, you will stop rejecting the idea of fate.

An ideal love life, unlimited financial abundance, perfect health, constantly harmonious personal relationships and more would be nice, but we are now entirely certain that it “ain’t gonna happen” if it’s not part of the path that your soul mapped out before you incarnated.

For example, despite what you might see on TV about finding a compatible romantic partner, like the best-selling author promoting her book about finding the perfect husband in less than a year (“I did it and you can too!”), everyone’s karma is different and what works for one person (because it fits his/her karmic blueprint) may fail for the next (being outside of his/her earthly plan).

“Learn valuable lessons about commitment and betrayal by experiencing a difficult spouse? Forget it! Instead, I’ll create the perfect relationship!” “Endure a period of financial limitations to learn about financial acumen? Nah, I’ll create infinite abundance now and forever live the high life!”

Unfortunately (for the ego-self), the universe doesn’t work that way. Dodging your fate isn’t an option.

But let’s not forget free will. You have free will to take the right action at the right time, allow your earthly personality to play its role in manifesting your destiny (including your ego-self desires that align with it), react to your life circumstances, and improve and influence your situation to the best of your ability within the confines of your fate.

Along these lines, free will also enables everyone to help shape their future lives through every thought, intent, and action in their present lives.

If you want an ideal as possible relationship, you can exercise your free will and do things to prepare for this. However, we believe that even doing what feels right feels right because it’s part of your pre-destined path. You could do something that isn’t part of your earthly plan, such as drop out of society, move to the wilderness and live off the land, but you probably wouldn’t because it doesn’t feel right for you to do.

Perhaps most importantly, it would be nice if we could all have “perfect love,” but this would miss the objective of the majority of our relationships on earth: personal growth. A predetermined degree of challenge is necessary in order to learn the lessons for which we incarnate.

As far as releasing your love karma through spiritual exercises, this sounds like wishful, spiritual woo-woo thinking to us.

The only exercise we know of to do this is the exercise of experiencing what you need to experience in real life. In other words, forget the notion of being able to cheat fate, despite the fact that most “love experts” suggest otherwise. We caution you to be skeptical of spiritual solutions that appear to be quick fixes.

The good news is that you can ease, but not evade, your karma by acceptance, forgiveness, and unconditional love. For instance, you can’t erase the lifelong disharmony between you and your siblings, but you can lighten the load by how you view and react to it.

Although not always easy, the best methods toward personal and spiritual growth include the following: achieve self-awareness so that you understand your highest path; take the right action at the right time to manifest your destiny; embrace all personal challenges including all difficult people as a necessary part of the growth process; forgive yourself and all others; love yourself and all others unconditionally; live your life knowing that all energy you put out will eventually come back to you; and know that you can’t always get what you want, but that every experience serves a valuable purpose.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Twins Expose Major Flaws of Modern Astrology

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Why is it that twins who have almost identical astrology charts can be so different, or that people born within a few minutes of each other in the same area (also having almost identical basic charts) appear to be such different souls?

The last two words of the above paragraph hold the key: Every person has a unique soul.

Astrology is only one way to outline the uniqueness of personality. Unfortunately, modern, psychologically-based Western astrology is far less exact than other forms of personality analysis in accurately discerning differences between twins and people who were born within a few minutes of each other in the same area.

This is one of the newer types of astrology (also known as “pop astrology”) and has been around for about 100 years. It’s the form most people are familiar with since it’s the basis of the vast majority of mainstream astrology books, web sites, magazine articles, and newspaper horoscopes.

In contrast, ancient forms of astrology (such as Egyptian, Hindu, Greek, and Arabic) offer far more accuracy than modern astrology in most ways, yet we haven’t found them to be the best means to clearly outline differences between twins and those born in the same city at about the same time.

There’s a popular theory that twins divide up their horoscope charts and that one chooses some of the energy and the other twin acts out the rest of the energy symbolized by the charts. There could be some validity to this idea, but as identical twins, we don’t feel there is much. While we find modern astrology useful, the lack of significant astrological differences in the charts of those born within minutes of each other in the same general location represents a significant flaw of the science.

Fortunately, there are much more accurate metaphysical delineation and predictive tools available; comprehensive numerology and handwriting analysis have proven to be very accurate, even in delineating differences between twins.

Comprehensive numerology as a character delineation and predictive tool, and handwriting analysis as a means to discern subconscious and conscious personality are invaluable for the following: predicting the probabilities and likelihoods of love, family, career and money issues; identification of personality strengths and challenges; identifying romantic or workplace compatibility; identifying periods of heightened spiritual growth; event analysis; political strategy and probabilities; financial trend forecasting; business negotiations and acquisitions; legal issues; investigations; duration potential involving events and partnerships; career guidance; child development; and any other area of life involving personality, compatibility or predictive analysis.

Although modern psychologically-based western astrology is a useful tool for generalized personality and timing analysis, it is best used in conjunction with other methods to assure a reasonable level of precision.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Love & Relationships From a Spiritual Viewpoint – 3 Reasons People Get Into Bad Relationships

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It’s very common for people to be inexplicably drawn into bad relationships. Why does this happen?

Life on earth is all about personal lessons. While relationships may not always give us what we want, they always offer potential for spiritual growth. The main reason you are drawn to those who may not be good for you is karma; you have unfinished business or lessons to experience together.

We are drawn to people in this life in part because of our connections with them from past lives.

Another reason may be that you have come together for a higher purpose such as a child or work that will affect others. Sometimes we are attracted to people because of our current life programming, much of which is rooted in early life experiences. Of course, as much as we have researched past life regression and karma, we realize that even our childhood experiences are likely to be karmic.

Also, some compare their relationships with the ideal relationship, something most of us want. When this is done, it’s easy to find flaws.

Other reasons for being drawn to difficult relationships include the following: a test to let go, heal, and move on; fear of being alone; an important, unique lesson; and sometimes it’s a signal that the love is genuine, but it may not be sensible.

Needless to say, if your partner is detrimental to your physical, emotional, or mental well-being, it’s time to move on.

Despite challenges, if two people feel a relationship is worth continuing, and they still feel drawn to each other, they may have a soul contract to fulfill.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Relocating Using Astrology

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In our experience, a person’s life dramatically improving at any particular time is precisely reflected in their numerology and astrology timing charts.

Relocation charts involving a move do symbolize to some extent what’s happening in a person’s life, but it doesn’t make those circumstances happen.

Through our research, we’ve consistently found that relocation doesn’t erase significant karma, nor does it allow a person to skip important lessons s/he has incarnated to learn on schoolhouse Earth. Instead, a change of residence is representative of the timing in a person’s birth charts; it’s all part of the plan.

Moving to a new location, whether you’re told it’s a good or bad place for you represented by your relocated astrology and numerology charts, will only serve to somewhat, symbolically, enhance or mitigate specific fated life circumstances. The major positive or negative destined life experiences are unavoidable.

A person having fantastic love timing periods in his/her birth charts could hardly go wrong no matter where s/he resided during that time. Alternatively, that same person having very challenging love timing cycles would encounter trials in even the most promising love location as identified by searching his/her relocated birth charts.

Dharma (what you must do) allows you to balance your karma (necessary lessons and experiences for spiritual development). These concepts are cornerstones of ancient wisdom supported by sages throughout history and are regularly overlooked today.

An extremely common error in today’s New Age thinking is trying to avoid challenging life experiences in favor of attempting to manifest what one’s ego-self wants when those desires (the “perfect” relationship, the “one,” perfect harmony with family members, loads of money, etc.) are not part of one’s destiny. It’s analogous to children thinking they can skip healthy food, feast on deserts only, and still be able to maintain good health.

There are no quick fixes, spiritually speaking; despite what many popular New Age types might tell you. After the inspiration and false hope have faded, one is still left with one’s karma.

However, even though we may not be able to “create” everything we desire, we do have the free will to react positively to our karmic circumstances and “create” within the confines of our earthly blueprints, individual karma, and spiritual law.

In short, although relocating is linked to changes in life circumstances, one cannot manifest what isn’t part of one’s earthly plan or avoid dates with destiny simply by moving to a different location.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Naming a Baby Using Numerology

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In our opinion, the best way to select the most appropriate name for a baby is to remove any ego-self from the equation. What we mean is that you need to “get out of the way,” and let the name come to you. Whatever name feels best is the most fitting name.

If you are expecting, and if you haven’t been already, soon you’ll be inspired with a wonderful name. After you decide on the name, then perhaps you can get into the name numerology to learn more about the soul that you are welcoming.

At the same time, according to the theory of predestination, whatever method you decide on in selecting the baby’s name and whatever you decide to name it, the baby will always have the most appropriate name. This means that nobody misnames a baby, even if a “mistake” is made on the birth certificate.

Some people don’t like their birth names. From numerologists’ point of view, this is a subtle form of self-hate. Some people who don’t like their names may have hidden self-rejection having to do with past life circumstances, as reflected in the charts.

How does each soul go to the right body? According to life-between-life research by Dr Michael Newton, there exists a synchronicity in our Universe and there are no accidents or mistakes. In other words, a soul is always born into the most appropriate body for the lessons and karma it needs to experience. This is all planned out by our higher-selves long before we incarnate.

Two schools of thought exist in naming a baby: naming the baby whatever feels most right, or attempting to attract a soul that matches what you want in a name. We feel the first method is best, but perhaps whatever method used is predestined, no matter how it may unfold.

Translations for letters to numbers are below:

ajs = 1

bkt = 2

clu = 3

dmv = 4

enw = 5

fox = 6

gpy = 7

hqz = 8

ir = 9

Example: Jon Allen Smith =>

j/1 + o/6 + n/5 = 12/3 (fadic addition: 12/3 => 1+2 = 3)

a/1 + l/3 + l/3 + e/5 + n/5 = 17/8

s/1 + m/4 + i/9 + t/2 + h/8 = 24/6

Adding the totals from each part of the full name =>

3 + 8 + 6 = 17/8

The Full Name Total is 8.

The Full Name Total is one of many important aspects in the numerology charts. It’s associated with, among other things, a person’s abilities.

Which number is best? There is no best number. Each number represents sets of distinct energies; energies that are balanced, over-balanced, or under-balanced.

Each position in the numerology charts represents different personality or predictive features. Some are linked more strongly with personality challenges, some with talent, some with innate desires, some with persona, some with timing, etc..

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Astrology, Numerology & Religion – Practicing Metaphysics Isn’t Sinful

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Rather than embracing religious or spiritual teachings blindly, question what you read or hear and consider other viewpoints.

For those who claim that metaphysical practices such as astrology and numerology are sinful, we recommend reading “The Christian Conspiracy,” by Dr. L. David Moore, who is a life-long Christian. Dr Moore outlines the Vatican political process of cannon selection (the editing of the Bible) that took place for 500 years after the death of Jesus. Some principles made the cut, many others were thrown out, and all decisions were based on the opinions of a religious group attempting to make their organization the most popular and powerful.

Dr Moore writes, “The major point to be understood is that the Old Testament upon which so much of early Christianity depended in order to have a historical basis and to become legitimized, didn’t officially exist until well after Christianity had been established and even after much of what later became the New Testament had been written. In addition, one major reason for establishing the Old Testament as canon was because during the first century C.E., Christianity was distorting the historical record in order to enhance their own new religion.”

Surely one recognizes the strong potential in the production process of the Bible for many spiritual truths to be overlooked and even avoided altogether.

Also, historical evidence points to the idea that the manufacturing of Christianity involved borrowing heavily from Pagan and other ancient spiritual philosophies (many were distorted to suit the Church’s views).

Regarding the fear of demonic possession by exploring metaphysical practices, practicing any form of spirituality (including organized, traditional ones)  from a base of fear can lower your vibration and make you more susceptible to negative energy.

Dr Moore goes on to say, “In addition to the extensive editing and rewrites of the Bible, there was the influence of the Inquisition or the Holy Calling (1231–1820). This was established by the Papacy to punish anyone who expressed a belief in reincarnation or practiced anything metaphysical that would threaten the universal control of the Church. They proclaimed these beliefs as the work of the devil and any believers were sent to dungeons, tortured, or burned to death.” Fear of persecution in many ways still exists today.

There are many different ways to connect with spirit: Meditation, prayer, attending religious or spiritual services, spending time in nature, making love, enjoying a good meal, and many others. If your preferred method is legal, it works for you, and if you’ve done your homework to make sure it isn’t hurting you or anyone else, go for it.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Numerology, Astrology & Graphology – Tools to Further Understanding, Thus Love, in Relationships

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When working with numerology, it’s good to consider your interpretation of what the aspects reflect, yet it’s also a good idea to remain detached from the analysis. Being detached from it all is not easy, but with practice you’ll be able to do it.

There are two different paths you could take with the powerful insight gained from comprehensive graphology, numerology, and astrology. You could choose to avoid anyone who represents a challenge, as seen through the charts and handwriting samples, or you could chose to remain open to everyone and the inherent lessons in each love relationship, friendship, and family connection.

For a long time we would not ask a person’s birth data (anyone we met, including romantic possibilities) until after we got to know the person better. Almost always, we would end up correctly sensing the core of the compatibility energy between us and the other person before we knew their birth data. We’re at the point where we can feel “what is” between us and another person, as reflected in the aspects. Very often it is as obvious as connecting a dark, moon-lit sky to night instead of day.

In our professional and personal lives if a person appears to have their head on straight and is not a risk to our well-being, we tend to proceed with the connection and not just avoid them, regardless of what we see in the charts and handwriting.

We could simply avoid interaction with certain individuals because the aspects (on a personality level and through compatibility) are not supportive of anything with an “easy flow” whatsoever. Instead, we most often remain detached from the charts, gave the person the benefit of the doubt, stay open for the lessons, and end up experiencing exactly what we previewed in the charts.

This is far from a self-fulfilled prophesy since we do everything we can to make it work and strive to see them in the most positive and objective light. Graphology, numerology, astrology and the other esoteric sciences, when interpreted and used correctly, simply represent truth.

However easier life becomes by avoidance of certain people, it’s often more rewarding through personal growth to embrace any type of connection, even those that are inherently very difficult.

We feel the best plan of action is to know “what is” between you and others and to use that understanding for personal development. However, that’s not to say that you can’t use your knowledge to select the best option, when you have more than one possibility.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Divine Guidance and Prosperity

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Question:

Scott and Stephen, My cousin passed away 6 years ago. About 4 days after he passed I was sitting on the beach crying. I said, OK Brent, now that you have some pull in heaven give me the pick 6 winning lottery #’s. That night I went to bed and had a dream that he gave me all 6 #’s. When I woke up the next day I could only remember 4 of the 6 #’s. When I got to work I played the 4 that I remembered and guessed at the other 2. Well, the 4 that I remembered came out. My question is, does this mean that at some point in my life I will be financially secure? I feel if I had remembered the other 2 #’s I would be wealthy right now. Or does it mean that I was never meant to be wealthy. I have always felt that I would be wealthy later in life. My birth data is… Thank You, Liz

Scott and Stephen’s Response:

Dear Liz,

We wouldn’t associate your cousin giving you the winning lotto numbers with the idea that you, in this life, will be financially secure, nor would we connect it with the idea that you were never meant to be wealthy.

It’s possible that your cousin wants you to understand that he is there to help if you need him.

In answering your questions, it depends on how you define wealth and financial security. The ability to go where you want, when you want? Owning many houses? Billionaire status?

Despite what you may regard as wealthy, based on the birth data you provided, the outline of your charts (this is a general outlook, not a comprehensive analysis) do in fact suggest that the later part of your life (late 50’s and beyond) will include a lot more status and money than you have at this time. It’s highly probable that there will be a marked shift in your life involving material wealth around age 48. At that time you begin a series of very rewarding long-term abundance time cycles. Then, around age 57 this greatly beneficial material timing energy is further enhanced.

We recommend asking your higher self (perhaps with your cousin’s guidance) what actions you can take to help usher in the destiny you’ve planned before incarnating. Our numerology software will help you determine the timing; the best time to take the necessary steps that will help you manifest what is to be.

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Spirituality, Occult & Metaphysics – Gullibility or Awareness?

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Some people may be too quick to accept metaphysical theories and methods without much consideration. Unfortunately, blind acceptance doesn’t usually lead to complete comprehension.

Most people who advocate various metaphysical concepts don’t automatically accept new theories. For many, having faith in an idea that can’t be proved or disproved such as reincarnation involves questioning, considering various explanations, applying the idea to their own life and the lives of others, and looking at other possibilities. Only then, after finding no good reason to discount it, will they accept it.

With an unbiased attitude, diligent research, and intuitive awareness, truth is uncovered.

An example is the past life regression therapist who does many regressions, being careful to remain objective, while compiling impressions and details about his clients’ past lives. Many, many cases offer explicit, verifiable details about distant, even ancient cultures such as types of societal standards like common marriage arrangement particulars, and even specific addresses and descriptions of particular houses and places of employment. Do these things prove reincarnation? No. Does it prove reincarnation when the hypnotized client begins speaking in a foreign language, one previously completely unknown (in this life)? Again, no, but it sure lends a lot of corroboration for supportive theories of reincarnation.

Ironically, it’s frequently those who condemn the belief in metaphysical concepts who display gullibility, believing misinformation (such as that of the organized religion they follow) all too readily without bothering to do their own objective research.

More and more people are opening up to alternative spiritual theories. It’s not too surprising that books like “The Da Vinci Code,” by Dan Brown are best-sellers today.

That which is looked upon by one generation as the apex of human knowledge is often considered an absurdity by the next, and that which is regarded as a superstition in one century, may form the basis of science for the following one. –Paracelsus

Copyright © 2004 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo