Cheating Boyfriend’s Handwriting: True Personality is Revealed Through Handwriting Analysis

How do you know if your lover is telling the truth?

Perhaps the only way to know for sure is to catch him or her with another lover.

Alternatively, while graphology (handwriting analysis) provides insight about potential current and future behavior, it won’t give you a definitive yes or no that he or she is cheating and being dishonest.

However, it’s possible to get an extremely clear idea of a person’s true personality, such as if they lack integrity. In order to do this, that person would need to write at least a 1/2-3/4 page of spontaneous writing about his or her current romantic situation. Indications such as insincerity and integrity issues showing up throughout the writing sample could give you a good idea about his or her actions.

Graphology is so informative because it reveals subconscious character, the real personality, not just the persona and the one seen when a person is at his or her best.

Relating to romantic relationships, a good handwriting analysis can tell you if a person fears commitment, avoids conflict, lacks a good sense of discernment (necessary to identify and understand personality and relationship issues), is emotionally mature or immature, is impulsive, fears intimacy, is restless, is self-conscious, lacks self-esteem and ego strength, has an excessive interest or disinterest in sex, fears success, fears trusting others, has a tendency to withdraw, and much more.

The topic of dishonest lovers brings up an important point about honesty in our society. Too many people think that if no one finds out that they lied, robbed, or cheated, they “got away with it.”

In reality, the eyes of truth are always watching, so everything you do and say creates karma and comes back to you. We’ve seen it played out repeatedly through past life regression, and we are convinced that there exists an automatic accountability system in this universe; everyone really does reap what they sow.

Love, Relationships & Reincarnation – Power of Love & Forgiveness Won’t Allow You to Cheat Fate

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Through our empirical research, we’ve found that a wonderfully harmonious bond (and variations of it) between two people, whether it is a work, family, friendship, or love relationship, is either there, or it isn’t.

We’ve also found that past lives with other people strongly influence what is experienced with them today.

Therefore, past life regression, when the focus is on the root cause of a problem and forgiveness, can definitely help to heal present life relationships.

Don’t believe in reincarnation? It doesn’t matter.

Whether past life scenes perceived in past life regression are real or imagined, both believers and skeptics can benefit from this powerful therapy.

But can the power of love and forgiveness alter destiny?

If a relationship is meant to end, based on the personal timing of the individuals involved and what they (their souls, not their personalities) decided before incarnating, can they (their personalities) choose to override that?

Well, as we’ve said before, our position is that you can’t cheat fate. Of course, the couple could stay together if they really wanted to, but it would likely feel unnatural (if they were honest with themselves) and potentially cause a lot of stress.

The good news is that if you change your perspective of love relationships by dropping your expectations (for permanence, someone to “complete” you, and the other relationship traps in our society that you’re conditioned to embrace) and accept each relationship as it’s meant to be, they become less difficult and more satisfying. Of course, starting with a solid foundation of self-love and respect is important too.

Our comprehensive numerology and astrology (compatibility and individual personal cyclical timing), along with psychic/intuitive readings indicates to us the level of compatibility and the timing of relationship rewards and challenges.

For example, we could indicate, on a scale of 1-100, just how compatible you are with your mate as seen through our work.

Also, we could indicate the duration potential of your bond. In other words, we’d tell you when things were, are, and will be “good” and when they aren’t, along with our professional opinion as to if the relationship has “seen better days.”

Numerology and Karmic Debt Numbers

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Don’t worry that you were a bad person in past lives if you have one or more of the numbers 13, 14, 16, and 19 in key positions in your numerology charts. These numbers are “Karmic Debt Numbers.” Everyone has had their share of lifetimes when they were not so nice. Karmic Debt numbers relate strongly to spiritual lessons.

Some might ask, why 13, 14, 16, and 19, why not 12, 15, 17, and 18, or 31, 32, 34, and 37 for example? It’s because through objective empirical research (including our own) over eons, those numbers have consistently shown to directly relate to much higher than average adversity and burden.

Support for this theory is gained through corroborating information in the comprehensive ancient and modern astrology charts of those who have Karmic Debt Numbers. For instance, it’s very common for a person with significant over-balanced 14 energy (e.g., 14 in one or more significant chart positions) to have patterns of unhealthy excess in the astrology charts, including a heavily afflicted Jupiter, for instance.

Handwriting analysis offers additional backing. Over-indulgence, to use the same example, is seen through graphology by one or more (best to have at least two to three traits heavily represented in at least a half page sample) of the following traits: variable slant of writing; too slack/sagging connectives between letters; concave t-bars; slant of writing to the extreme right, along with heavy pen pressure; long, needle pointed ends of lower-zone letters such as p, g, and y; thick, muddy-looking, shaded script; very heavy pressure; erratic baselines; erratic movement; irregular middle zone size (such as where the letters e, o, a, n, etc. reside); weakly crossed t-bars; and many others.

We insist on using a complex system of checks and balances in our delineation and predictive work, including comprehensive ancient and modern astrology, ancient and modern numerology, handwriting analysis, past life regression, future progression, and intuitive readings.

Witnessing multiple indications lining up like the dials on a slot machine jackpot supporting a specific notion (such as the timing of a rewarding love relationship between a compatible couple) allows for a higher level of certainty.

Karmic Debt Numbers symbolize unfinished business from past incarnations and a heightened need to balance specific energies. They often perfectly represent the reasons behind life’s challenges.

The following are common areas in life where Karmic Debt Numbers, in various chart positions, indicate notable challenges: career; reputation and image; dreams and desires; love relationships; family, health, finances, and more.

To what degree and when karmic lessons, tied to Karmic Debt Numbers, are encountered is related to key (often matching) cyclical timing. In other words, specific cyclical timing aspects (periods of time) symbolically provide fertile “harvesting” ground for life events and circumstances noted by Karmic Debt Numbers.

It’s correct to say that it is entirely possible to know what years and months, through comprehensive ancient and modern astrology and numerology, in a person’s life that he or she is fated to meet his or her most pressing life dilemmas. This awareness allows one to plan and prepare.

The symbolic forces of each number (balanced, under-balanced, and over-balanced) remain the same, yet each position (over 400 in our personal charting systems) in the comprehensive charts has a different impact. Therefore, the numbers are further defined by their positions. Patterns, consisting of numbers in various positions (aspects), reflect personality and life circumstances and events.

Having the number 19 prominent in your charts, as the Day of Birth position for example, simply means that you (your soul, not your personality) chose, before incarnating, to put a lot of energy toward balancing that type of energy in this particular lifetime.

We estimate that over half of the population has Karmic Debt Numbers prominent in their charts. The Day of Birth position is one of several important chart positions where Karmic Debt Numbers are sometimes found.

Sometimes the number 19 relates more to under-balanced 19 energy, such as dependency and isolation, and other times it’s more connected to over-balanced 19 energy, such as intolerance, theft, and aggression. It’s possible for a person to swing between over and under-balanced energy, as indicated by the rest of the charts’ personality aspects and cyclical timing.

The number 19, or any number as any aspect of the charts, must be considered in relation to the other numbers/aspects to gain full understanding.

Know that some Karmic Debt Numbers, based on their positions and the rest of the charts’ contents, have a much more powerful relevance than others.

Below is an excerpt from the information included with our Numerology Decoder Software, which is easy to use and will give you great insight about yourself and others, to give you a clearer idea of the energy represented by Karmic Debt numbers.

Karmic Debt Numbers

Numerology Decoder Software correctly calculates Karmic Debt Numbers. Karmic Debt Numbers include the following numbers: 13, 14, 16, and 19. These numbers are heavily associated with inherent challenges and symbolize energy that is greatly in need of balancing.

Information about each of the Karmic Debt Numbers 13, 14, 16 and 19:

13: 13 can be an extremely potent number representing transformation and success, but it usually symbolizes immaturity, lack of seriousness, degeneration, irresponsibility, trivial and idle disposition, self-indulgence, inefficiency, negligence, carelessness, extravagance, waste, verbal abuse, dishonesty, inflexibility, restriction, and health issues. Success comes from transforming all of the negative energies into effort, responsibility and maturity.

14: 14 most often represents over-indulgence, recklessness, excessive sexual appetites, abuse of freedom, short-lived interests and ventures, transitory nature, rolling stone lifestyle, lack of healthy limits, debauchery, letting go too soon or hanging on too long, constant change, impulsiveness, scattering energies, avoidance of commitment and instability. Success comes from transforming all of the negative energies into flexibility, constructive focus, specialization, and surrender of excessive sensual appetites.

16: 16 most often represents misapplication of sexual energy, disloyalty, unfaithfulness, illicit involvements, hurtful love relationships, secret sex, aloofness, distrust, neglect, loss, hypocrisy, superficiality, painful collapse of ego-self ideals, rise in status leading to eventual collapse, intense pride, self-righteousness, secrecy and painful separations. Success comes through integrity, and finding wisdom through pain and loss.

19: 19 most often represents selfishness, dependency, inability to see things from others’ viewpoints, isolation, greed, theft, self-importance, addiction, aggression, intolerance, ego-centric outlook, abuse of power, disrespect of others, coercion, refusal to seek help from others, and self-centeredness. Success comes after establishing balanced self-sufficiency, yet also a capacity for cooperation and interpersonal skills.

Reincarnation, Karma, Fate and Soul Decisions – Most of Your Free Will is Exercised Before Incarnating

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Once you understand the basics of reincarnation, it’s not that complicated or scary. There are many good books about this subject and the related subject of life between life.

We’ve found Michael Newton’s research to be fantastic. He is the foremost researcher on life between life, has been exploring the subject for many years, and is well respected among other researchers of reincarnation. His books answer a lot of questions.

We wrote about how past lives affect current love lives in our book Your Love Life and Reincarnation.

Others who have done reincarnation research include Janet Cunningham, Ph.D., Winafred Lucas, Ph.D., Raymond Moody, M.D., Richard Sutphen, and the Grandfather of reincarnation research, Ian Stevenson, M.D.

Scientific studies involving reincarnation include the Journal of Scientific Exploration, Allen Press, Lawrence, KS., and the Journal of Regression Therapy, International Association for Regression Research and Therapies (IARRT), Riverside, CA. (909)784-1570, http://www.IARRT.org.

Do you have choices when reincarnating? Yes, but on a soul level, not on a personality level. Your soul plans each incarnation and chooses when and where to be born. Based on our research and that of other respected researchers, we believe that humans reincarnate into human bodies, not as animals (transmigration) or physical objects. However, until we can disprove it, we are not ruling out the possibility of transmigration.

Someone might ask, “Why don’t I have complete free will once I incarnate?” If you could sidestep the important lessons, then you wouldn’t learn what your soul intended for you. Imagine if everyone got what they wanted all the time. The successes would eventually come to lack sweetness, and life would not be the same. Polarities are a necessary part of this dimension, and your soul determines your karmic blueprint before you incarnate.

At the same time, you still have free will to make the most of your life and also manifest that which fits into your earthly plan.

Free Will, Karma, and Fate – Self-Mastery Won’t Allow Your Future to be Less Fixed

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We find the level of ease in predicting life circumstances and events for those who are less self-aware is the same as it is for those who are more self-actualized.

If someone is fated to experience specific life situations, they will experience them regardless of what choices they make. From a spiritual viewpoint, there is less freedom in decision-making than most people seem to want to believe. Based on our empirical research, a lot more in life is destined than people may want to accept.

Are we saying that since so much is fated in life that it’s a waste of time to explore metaphysical concepts, or for that matter, to set and strive toward personal goals and make an effort to get as much as possible out of life? Absolutely not.

We never advocate a passive, unproductive approach to life, other than letting go of trying to change what you can’t change. First, one must “know thyself.” Then a person can work toward his or her goals that are within their personal karmic plan.

Someone might ask, “If everything was mapped out for us, wouldn’t we just be robots following orders placed by our higher selves? We do have some sort of freedom, don’t we?”

In large part, if you want to view it that way, yes, each of us are simply following through within our own unique karmic directives, putting one foot in front of the other to manifest fate.

Look at it this way: each of us incarnates to learn specific spiritual lessons. If we had as much free will as we have before we incarnate as we do while we are incarnated, how many people do you think would actually chose to experience the tough lessons, or any lessons at all aside from absolute ego-self gratification?

As we’ve said before, we have found that everyone has some freedom to “create” within karmic boundaries while on this earth, but not nearly as much as most people seem to want to believe. If people could become “anything” they want to become, nobody would remain what they are.

The charts show that there is no escape from what could be termed as soul responsibilities: necessary personal experiences while incarnated on Earth. The good news is that there is relief through acceptance, detachment, and unconditional love.

Feng Shui Wisdom and Dogma

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We are very familiar with and greatly respect Feng Shui, the ancient art of placement. We’ve hired top local Feng Shui experts to assist us with our homes and offices and we both feel that it was worth the cost.

We have found that, through years of experimentation, the placement of objects in your home and the design of the home itself is important and helps you capitalize on, and make the most of your fate.

There are, however, some problems with modern Feng Shui, in our opinion. First, there are three or more “schools” or methods, and the different methods’ principles often clash with each other.

For instance, each says that the “love area” is in a different place in our respective homes. The directional/compass method (which we’ve noticed seems to offer the most accuracy) reports that it is the southwest corner. However, the front door method dictates that it is in the far forward, right corner while standing at the front door facing inside.

Furthermore, one method might convey not to have a light in a certain corner of the home. Then a different method might suggest that it’s important to have a very bright light in that same corner.

Perhaps Feng Shui is like astrology and numerology where many of its greatest techniques and wisdom have been lost through many translations over the centuries.

Many Feng Shui practitioners, in our experience, either deny or just don’t understand the concepts of karma and predestination. If a person is determined (by their higher-self /soul before birth, not their personality during this life) to live a life of obscurity, no amount of plants, color, harmony, etc. in their home will make them famous.

Also, if a person is fated to live a life of humility, barely getting by, having to endure temporary or even long-term poverty, no amount of Feng Shui cures will erase that and make them a millionaire.

Too many of today’s Feng Shui experts say things such as, “add some color and a crystal (or whatever) in this part of your home and attract big money!” or “Beautify and add some flowers to your love area and attract the love of your life!”

We absolutely see the value of harmonious placement and there are many professionals and good Feng Shui books available to assist with this, and we feel it’s possible to enhance life and make the most of the path your soul chose in spirit form before incarnating, but a person can’t erase fate through even the best Feng Shui methods.

Someone might point to “proof” that Feng Shui “overcame fate,” and “created miracles,” yet through objective observation, the Feng Shui methods only directly symbolized what was to be. Even “miracles” are fated.

Those same “miracle cures” do not work for everyone unless someone is fated to experience what the cures are supposed to help accomplish.

We make this statement through observing many Feng Shui residence and office layouts relative to our own and others’ lives (specifically regarding money and love) since the early 1990’s. More than anything, it appears to us that Feng Shui largely represents fate.

As we have said repeatedly, adversity and challenge exist in people’s lives for a reason, which usually relates to personal and spiritual growth.

What if you try to manipulate your fate by choosing a new home based on a favorable Feng Shui layout? We feel that’s fated too. Those who are supposed to apply the wisdom of Feng Shui are fated to do so and the homes or offices they choose are all a part of fate, no matter how it manifests.

In short, just as putting up holiday decorations do not manifest the holiday season, for the most part, Feng Shui arrangements don’t make things happen, but they can symbolize situations and circumstances in your life.

Keep Seeing Same Number Over and Over

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Many, many people have told us about having the experience of repeatedly seeing the same number, or number pattern. Perhaps they look at the clock and see 11:34, then glance at a store receipt total of $11.34, then hear of a historical event happening in the year 1134 BC, all in the same day. Or they keep seeing the same number or numbers over an over for months, even years.

We feel it’s often a subconscious, even super-conscious, attachment to the energy behind the numbers. Along with indicating quantity, as we’ve mentioned before, each number represents a specific type of energy, or quality.

Since we believe, based on our research, that all things happen for a reason and that order (as numerologically represented by numbers), instead of chaos or randomness, exists in this universe, you noticing select numbers again and again holds meaning.

In a heightened state of mind, positive or negative (e.g., joy or trauma), a person sees a particular number and that number may be burned into their subconscious.

Or, a person consciously, “randomly” chooses a certain number one day for whatever reason and that choice proves to be beneficial, and they stick with it, calling it “lucky.”

Or, a person reads somewhere that the number 943, for example, equals prosperity and divine assistance (even if it doesn’t), so they embrace that number and subjectively view it as fortunate.

It’s also common for a person to have a fixation with certain numbers that are significant in his/her personal numerology charts, before even knowing anything about his/her charts. This too could be considered an unconscious attachment.

For example, a person has potent “3” energy in the positions of the charts representing inner desire, motivation, and that with which they are most comfortable. That person says “…whenever I see ‘3’ (or 111 <1+1+1=3>, or 12 <1+2=3>, etc.) I know it’s a good sign, I’ve always liked the number 3…”

In many cases, it appears to us that the subject’s subconscious, even higher-self, might be trying to make them consciously aware of something.

If you want more clarity, it would require you to decipher the energy behind the numbers.

Use the Number Symbolism guide below. It is absolutely consistent with the most reliable sources.

Keep in mind that the energy symbolism behind specific numbers has remained the same for eons; it’s a solid and reliable tradition, rooted in objective empirical observation. We make this point so that you avoid wasting time with new, creative, subjective (and false) interpretations, such as those in some modern New Age publications.

It’s unfortunate to see numerological misinformation published by popular New Age authors. Most mean well, but they are in a position where a lot of people believe everything they say and write, so shallow and false interpretations do nothing more than mislead, confuse, and tarnish the image of the science of numerology. As has been said, the New Age has a bad name for a good reason.

When interpreting multiple-digit numbers, use fadic addition to reduce all numbers to a single digit. The single digit, the root number, is the most important number. For example, 7556 = 7+5+5+6 = 23 = 2+3 = 5.

Also, an individual number’s potency in a multiple-digit number is based on its position. In the number 7556, 7 is strongest, then 5, then the next 5, and 6 carries the weakest energy force in this multiple-digit number.

At this time, don’t concern yourself with translating the remaining parts of a multiple-digit number after reducing it to a single digit. The individual numbers (along with the 7000, 500, and 50, comprising 7556, for example) of the original multiple-digit number also have relative representation, but those are topics for advanced study/ interpretation. Master Numbers (11, 22, 33, 44, 55, 66, 77, 88, and 99) and Karmic Debt numbers (13, 14, 16, and 19) are also more involved subjects.

Please note that when you get into advanced interpretation beyond reducing all multiple-digit numbers to a single number, avoid erroneously chopping up multiple-digit numbers in such a fashion: deriving 84, 32, and 415, for instance, from 8432415, or extracting 11, or 311 from 3113.

We say erroneous because through our many years of empirical research this style has proven to be invalid. Besides, every treasured, workable, numerical kabala (or cabala–sacred number and/or letter codes used to derive meaning/truth) throughout history, including the sacred ancient Hebrew Kabbalah, instead uses the following method: 8432415, for example, is comprised of 8000000, 400000, 30000, 2000, 400, 10, and 5; and then 27 (through fadic addition adding up all the numbers), and 9 (the root number, adding 2+7 of 27).

The exception to this rule is if you glance at a numerical sequence and only “see” part of it. For example, you look at 1338 and only “see” the 33 (your subconscious or higher-self is fixed on those two numbers only). Therefore, you accept it and disregard the other numbers. 33 = 3+3=6. See below for more information about the number 6.

Still, the numbers, no matter how they are encountered, always represent the same types of energy. For instance, just as progressiveness isn’t associated with the root number 4, gregariousness isn’t linked to the root number 7.

We’ve also encountered people who have an uncommon connection to other dimensions (as represented by the unique patterns in their comprehensive numerology and astrology charts) and they “get information” through numerical signs and through other ways, much more freely than most people, whether they want to or not. Often, the receiving of these “messages” can be unsettling and dramatic, until they become comfortable with it.

Once you move beyond any fear and get in touch with your subconscious, align yourself more firmly with your higher-self/super-conscious, and/or embrace a possible uncommon “connection,” you’ll be in a position to decipher the messages more easily.

We also invite you to read more about the subconscious mind and number symbolism: http://www.scottpetullo.com

Number Symbolism

1: The number 1 is connected with new starts, independence, new opportunity, inspiration, originality, standing alone, concentration, leadership, determination, self-employment, courage and isolation.

Balanced 1 energy: initiative, energetic, persistent, creative, confident, ambitious, self-reliant, dynamic, bold, forward looking, assertive.

Over-balanced 1 energy: selfish, impatient, elitist, intolerant, addicted, aggressive, self-important, unyielding, headstrong, defiant, dictatorial, self-at-all-cost attitude, arrogant, domineering, possessive, greedy.

Under-balanced 1 energy: passive, weak will, cowardly, dependent, insecure, subservient, helpless, lack of self-respect, changeable, weary.

2: The number 2 is linked to sensitivity, teamwork, partnerships, marriage, love, divorce, friendships, details, public recognition, tolerance, modesty, receptivity, behind the scenes work, cooperation, rhythm, harmony, and slow growth.

Balanced 2 energy: tactful, sensitive, harmonizing, flexible, diplomatic, helpful, patient, sincere, modest, cautious, courteous, receptive.

Over-balanced 2 energy: scheming, deceitful, manipulative, faultfinding, resentfully resisting, devious, condescending, disapproving, interfering.

Under-balanced 2 energy: unresponsive, cowardly, self-depreciating, dependent, inactive, self-depreciating, indecisive, vacillating, overly sensitive, uncaring.

3: The number 3 is related to laughter, amusement, pleasure, making new friends, self-improvement, attracting love, sexual expression, artistic creativity, writing, good times, quick recoveries, dramatic emotional ups and downs, easy money and instability.

Balanced 3 energy: honest emotional expression, optimistic, literary talent, vivacious, cultivated, amusing, imaginative, well liked, magnetic.

Over-balanced 3 energy: lacks concentration, scatters energy, overconfident, emotionally volatile, irresponsible, gossipy, exaggerating, superficial.

Under-balanced 3 energy: insincere emotional expression, temperamental, petty, depressed, jealous, unsociable, self-doubting, bored, inarticulate, unthinking, indecisive, unenthusiastic, apprehensive.

4: The number 4 is associated with material interests, structure, managing finances, creating foundations that last, work, business success, stable finances, routine, organization, putting ideas into form, efficiency, physical activity, health matters, limitation and lack of fun and excitement.

Balanced 4 energy: productive, reliable, thrifty, cautious, disciplined, integrity, methodical, analysis, serious, balanced, loyal, sensible, persevering.

Over-balanced 4 energy: rigid, narrow-minded, inflexible, rough, dreary, numb emotions, uncompromising, provincial, too frank, lost in detail.

Under-balanced 4 energy: apathetic, disorganized, lack of integrity, impractical, plodding, careless, inefficient, distracted, idle, neglectful.

5: The number 5 is related to advertising, promotion, sales, sensuality, sex, freedom, travel, communication, changes, fluctuation, flexibility, excitement, adventure, transmutation.

Balanced 5 energy: multifaceted, broadminded, healthy limits, appropriately dissolving career or personal relationships at the right time, forward-thinking, charming, curious, adaptable, independent, clever, resourceful, liberated.

Over-balanced 5 energy: over-indulgent, mercurial, over-sexed, reckless, ending relationships too soon, impatient, thrill-seeking, erratic, extreme independence, insatiable, restless.

Under-balanced 5 energy: fear of change, stagnant, dependent, hanging on to associations that have expired, conforming, fear of freedom, dull, ineffective, expressionless.

6: The number 6 is linked to domestic issues, home and family, relationships, marriage, divorce, romance, responsibility, friendships, karma, emotions, slow moving energy, harmony, teaching, healthy balanced living.

Balanced 6 energy: domestic, advising, friendly, tolerant, supportive, appreciative, peace-making, protective, humanitarian, responsible, devoted, loving, stable, sensible.

Over-balanced 6 energy: distorted idealism, critical, interfering, opinionated, possessive, stubborn, sacrificing, unreasonable obstinate, unforgiving, disheartened.

Under-balanced 6 energy: uncaring, uncooperative, biased, unconcerned, indulgent, lethargic, unwelcoming, non-committal, disconsolate.

7: The number 7 is connected to mysticism, intuition, inner growth, examination, study, analysis, reflection, lowered physical vitality, increased mental activity, conserving assets, planning, attracting unsolicited help, specialization, solitude, health issues, travel.

Balanced 7 energy: metaphysical interests, different wavelength, intellectual, clairvoyant, analytical, perceptive, scientific, exact, meditative, mystical, expert, bookish, poised, telepathic, visionary, deep, dreamer, instinctive, reflective, truth-seeker, studious, wise.

Over-balanced 7 energy: fearful, nervous, critical, paranoid, indecisive, secretive, repressed emotions, distrustful, guarded, intimidating, fussy, evasive, fanatic, self-conscious, secretive, perfectionist, impersonal, pessimistic.

Under-balanced 7 energy: lack of depth, naïve, ignorant, too trusting, empty-headed, mystified, superficial, lack of faith, undeveloped, uninformed, unsure.

8: The number 8 is tied to influence, money, karma, action, business success, business failure, control, material objects, status, loss, gain, administration, management, ego, leadership, power.

Balanced 8 energy: prosperous, high-powered, commanding, stamina, self-confident, persuasive, financial awareness, effective, ambitious, businesslike, clear-headed, disciplined, material freedom, honorable, enterprising.

Over-balanced 8 energy: abuses power, cold-blooded, egotistical, overreaction to money, scheming, aggressive, materialistic, corrupt, demanding, domineering, preoccupied with power and money, unsympathetic, over-ambitious, confrontational, rebellious, coarse.

Under-balanced 8 energy: passive, vulnerable, fearful, insecure, avoids power and money, poor judgment, gives personal power away, shortsighted.

9: The number 9 is associated with unconditional love, reward, leadership by example, dramatic endings, emotional love, emotional crisis, the finest life has to offer, conclusions, deep love, compassion, magnetism, travel, idealism, charity, artistic and creative matters, developing spirituality, romance, forgiveness.

Balanced 9 energy: artistic, philanthropic, affectionate, creative, forgiving, passionate, benevolent, warm, tolerant, sentimental, loving, liberal, generous, enthusiastic, trustworthy, hospitable, humane.

Over-balanced 9 energy: deceiving, self-centered, hedonistic, lacking integrity, over-emotional, prejudiced, resentful, bad example, irresolute, dejected, vindictive, hateful, hostile.

Under-balanced 9 energy: ultraconservative, impersonal, distant, unemotional, elusive, submissive, drifting, faint-hearted, victimized, disloyal, hazy.

Numbers Behind Letters: A J S = 1, B K T = 2, C L U = 3, D M V = 4, E N W = 5, F O X = 6, G P Y = 7, H Q Z = 8, I R = 9

Time travel and Changing the Past

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When we hear of people “time traveling” and “changing the past,” we immediately ask, what kind of event was changed? Could it be possible that what seemed to change was only a perception of the event? How was it verified? Could the report be fiction rather than non-fiction?

Based on many years of research and observation in metaphysics, we believe that much of life is destined, meaning certain things are meant to be a certain way.

We wish people could change the past and have the present and future go a different way, but we don’t feel it’s possible if it’s not meant to be.

At the same time, we feel it’s possible that some individual souls are back from the future to influence the present in order to have certain events happen or not happen in the future. But perhaps that’s destined too, so they’re not really altering fate.

We’ve never tried going back to the past to change an event, but we have regressed ourselves and many others into past lives and re-experienced events to let go of emotional trauma that had carried over into current lives.

Releasing trauma from the past that has remained in the subconscious mind improves current life situations. Regression therapy is an increasingly common healing method.

The inability to change the past is an example of how no one has total free will to create what they want after incarnating, but you do have free will in how you react to destined events.

Spirituality, New Age, Conscious Creation and Dogma – Contrary to the Hype, Your Fate is Measurable

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We state our theories as the result of our long-term, unbiased, empirical research.

When we first began investigating metaphysical concepts back in the early 1980s, we wanted to believe that we could create anything we desired. Unfortunately or fortunately (depending upon your viewpoint), we’ve found through much empirical research, including thousands of past life regressions and analyzing the numerology and astrology charts of thousands of subjects, that the “you can create and be anything you want in this life” concept is a myth.

Some may ask what past life regression, numerology, and astrology have to do with fate vs. free will. Our answer is a lot. Once you research reincarnation (we’ve listed some sources below), experience multiple past life regressions to find the root causes of personal problems, and have your character and general inclination of your fate outlined by comprehensive astrology and numerology, you will begin to realize that a lot in life is predestined. This is true for everyone: people not involved in metaphysics and gurus; people who don’t believe in God and for those who do; those who make great efforts to “create their reality” and for those who don’t.

Prediction of personal fate is a more than 2000 year-old tradition. The numerology and astrology charts, in ancient times, were used for prediction. Kings, queens, pharaohs, emperors, religious leaders, and other powerful, influential types wanted to capitalize on their fate and be prepared for challenging times.

Many of today’s psychics, astrologers, numerologists, and other readers claim that fate isn’t measurable and deny that it’s possible to predict key life circumstances. Unfortunately, some do so in order to mask their own inability to do accurate prediction. Or, some know that they can gain more business by painting a more idealistic, yet false, picture. Other, well-meaning intuitive professionals may not have gone as deeply into the subjects or are simply fearful of facing the idea that a lot in life is fated.

An incidental: psychology was not part of astrology and numerology until about 100 years ago. Originally, comprehensive astrology and numerology had nothing to do with psychology and everything to do with prediction. This may come as a shock to some practicing modern astrologers who have not looked beyond modern astrological and numerological methods.

Many of today’s New Agers are unaware of the fact that the wisest of the ancients believed that the very fate expertly discerned from the charts was not mutable. It isn’t alterable; you can’t erase it. That means that an aspiring actor who is fated for obscurity won’t ever be a Hollywood A-lister, no matter how inspired he becomes, no matter how much effort he puts into it, no matter how much he works on his subconscious blocks, and no matter how much he consciously believes and tries to “create the life of his dreams.” Is he meant to be an aspiring actor who doesn’t ultimately reach big fame or money? Yes.

We’ve read statements from “best-selling,” New Age, inspirational authors such as “…we are proving that the ancients were right; we can create the life of our dreams!”

That’s particularly telling because all of our research into the teachings of ancient astrologers, mystics, Gnostics, and other respected wise ones clearly shows that the ancients didn’t believe that sort of philosophy.

Predicting fated life events and circumstances was a very serious business in ancient times, whether it was in Ancient Egypt, China, Greece, Persia or elsewhere; if the sage was not consistently correct in his predictions, he was sometimes executed. Astrologers and numerologists like Abu Ali Al-Khayyat, Masha’allah, Alkindi, Bonatti, and Morinus successfully continued the tradition of accurate prediction, becoming legendary in their areas of expertise.

What’s the point of being an intuitive reader if a client can’t get at least a general understanding of his/her fate? If some people instead want flowery feedback without predictive perspective, or just want to chat with a professional, there are plenty of qualified counselors and therapists to fulfill that need.

Too often we’ve seen “conscious creationist” types get carried away with inspiration and thinking that they can create whatever they set their (ego personality) minds to, despite the aspirations likely being outside of their karmic blueprints.

Yes, we are big fans of inspiration, self-improvement, setting and striving to achieve important goals, and making the most of our lives. However, when all of that is done without self-understanding, without asking the question, “who am I and what is it that I am here on earth to learn, what is my dharma, and what is my karma?,” then it becomes problematic.

“Knowing thyself,” and self-understanding come first. Then one is more able to “consciously create” what is in line with their destiny rather than just going for what the ego wants.

Destiny is not something you consciously create or something you choose like what to have for dinner. It’s already set in motion before you incarnate. Again, if you want to explore this concept and understand from experience rather than just hearsay, there are sources listed below; study them and experience past life regression and life between life regression.

Often, we hear of people claiming that they can create/manifest anything they consciously want, and saying that their fate is not predetermined. Then we ask them about their fate (knowing thyself) and they don’t know; worse, they say personal fate doesn’t exist, just that they have “unlimited possibilities” in their lives. Yet they ultimately “create” a reality that is void of those “unlimited possibilities” that they speak of.

So what’s going on here is that they claim that they can “create anything” they desire, but they never tell us what they’ve “created” that is so unusual (that isn’t otherwise predictable–at the very least, the general form of, through comprehensive astrology and numerology), and they never have any clue about their fate since they’ve never delved into the predictive sciences, or consulted with someone who is able to measure fate.

Then there are those who say they know their fate, but that they can also change it. But what they claim is a manifestation of inspirational power outside of their destiny matches what we see as their fate in the comprehensive charts. In other words, they were destined to “create” what they created, and they were destined to experience what they experienced in the journey along the way.

By the way, we also see “miracles” as fate in disguise. We see all significant life events as being predestined. Does this philosophy encourage a passive or neglectful attitude toward life? No. We’ve always advocated getting in touch with who you really are, capitalizing on your strengths, accepting what you can’t change, and assertively going after your goals, goals that are aligned with your personality and your higher-self/soul.

Someone might ask, “How do you know that our destiny is not changed by the way in which we respond to the moment that is currently passing?”

The answer to that is simple. Because fate is measurable, no matter how people respond to the circumstances in their lives. Because destiny is what will be, and what will be is not always what you want to create.

A person’s overall karmic plan, including its key lessons and rewards, isn’t altered by a person “deciding” to do one thing instead of another, such as moving to NYC instead of Wichita.

The overall plan was for that person to move to NYC instead of Wichita, and that’s why they did. Even the way people respond, react, and consciously decide to live their lives is predictable, if you get to know their subconscious character well enough.

Ultimately, if people could become anything they wanted, they wouldn’t stay the same. Yet they do for the most part.

You talk to people who are going to many New Age seminars, who are determined to “create” the life of their dreams. Then, you see them 20 years later and they may be more wise, aware, or accepting, or inspired, but have they created the life of their dreams? Some have, and some haven’t. Some are fated to experience more love, money, or success, and some are not.

You can’t prove a theory, you can only invalidate it. Thus far, through all our years of empirical research, we haven’t disproved that it’s possible to predict fate.

As we’ve said before, the reason we feel this is so important is that when you are more aware of your fate and who you really are beyond your conscious personality, you are better able to capitalize on your strengths; you avoid spinning your wheels, resulting in frustration, depression, or worse, when you don’t manifest what you wanted.

Ultimately, based on our findings, life is much more about self-understanding, life lessons, and the journey, instead of the destination and reaching for “unlimited opportunities in the universe.”

On the bright side, if a person discovers it is not their fate to, for example, be a successful professional opera singer in this life, we do believe that if that person continues to aspire strongly enough to be a great opera singer that they may very well manifest that desire in a future lifetime. “Gifts” are really talents developed over lifetimes, in our view.

Reincarnation Sources:

Cunningham, Janet, Ph.D. A Tribe Returned. Crest Park, CA:Deep Forest Press, 1994.

Cunningham, Janet, Ph.D. and Michael Ranucci. Caution: Soul Mate Ahead! Spiritual Love in the Physical World. Columbia, MD: Two Suns Press, 1999.

Fiore, Edith. You Have Been Here Before. New York: Ballantine, 1978.

Goldberg, Bruce, D.D.S. Past Lives Future Lives. New York: Ballantine, 1982.

Langley, Noel. Edgar Cayce On Reincarnation. New York: Warner Books, Inc., 1967.

Lucas, Winafred, Ph.D. Regression Therapy: A Handbook for Professionals, Vol. 1, Crest Park, CA: Deep Forest Press, 1993.

Lucas, Winafred, Ph.D. Regression Therapy: A Handbook for Professionals, Vol. 2, Crest Park, CA: Deep Forest Press, 1993.

MacLaine, Shirley. Out On A Limb. New York: Bantam Books, 1983.

Moody, Raymond, M.D. Coming Back: A Psychiatrist Explores Past-Life Journeys. New York: Bantam, Doubleday, Dell Publishing Group, 1990.

Sprinkle, R. Leo, Ph.D. Soul Samples. Columbus, NC: Granite Publishing Group, 1999.

Steiger, Brad, and Francie Steiger. Discover Your Past Lives. Atglen. PA: Schiffer Publishing, Ltd., 1987.

Steiger, Brad, and Lorin Williams. Other Lives. Phoenix: Esoteric Publications, 1985.

Steiger, Brad. You’ll Live Again. Nevada City, CA: Blue Dolphin Publishing, Inc., 1996.

Stevenson, Ian, M.D. Twenty Cases Suggestive of Reincarnation. Charlottesville, VA.: University Press of Virginia, revised and enlarged edition, 1974.

Sutphen, Dick. You Were Born Again To Be Together. New York: Simon and Schuster, 1976.

Sutphen, Dick. Predestined Love. New York: Simon and Schuster, 1988.

Sutphen, Dick. Past Lives, Future Loves. New York: Simon and Schuster, 1978.

Todeschi, Kevin J. Edgar Cayce on Soul Mates: Unlocking The Dynamics Of Soul Attraction. Virginia Beach, VA: A.R.E. Press, 1999.

Weiss, Brian L., M.D. Many Lives, Many Masters. New York: Simon and Schuster, 1988.

Wambach, Helen. Reliving Your Past Lives. New York: Barnes and Noble, 2000.

Life Between Life:

Newton, Michael. Journey Of Souls: Case Studies of Life Between Lives. St. Paul, MN: Llewellyn Publications, 1997.

Newton, Michael. Destiny Of Souls: New Case Studies of Life Between Lives. St. Paul, MN: Llewellyn Publications, 2000

Moody, Raymond A., Jr., M.D. Life After Life. New York: Bantam Books, 1975.

Scientific Studies Involving Reincarnation:

Journal of Scientific Exploration, Allen Press, Lawrence, KS. Has published various articles about reincarnation studies.

Journal of Regression Therapy, International Association for Regression Research and Therapies (IARRT), Riverside, CA. (909) 784-1570, http://www.IARRT.org.

New Age, Spirituality, and Dogma – 10 Myths Revealed

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Merriam-Webster’s Online Dictionary definition of dogma is as follows:

Main Entry: dog·ma
Pronunciation: ‘dog-m&, ‘däg-
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural dogmas also

dog·ma·ta /-m&-t&/
Etymology: Latin dogmat-, dogma, from Greek, from dokein to seem a point of view or tenet put forth as authoritative without adequate grounds

While we recognize the positive influences of organized faith, most religions, including Buddhism for example, have their share of dogma. Despite valuing many Buddhist tenets, we detect plenty of dogmatic beliefs among its followers. The following email sent to us from a Buddhist who chants daily exemplifies our point:

“I think fate and destiny goes back to karma, yes we have karma from previous lives, but we created our own karma, so we also can change it! Although we may not change all bad karma completely, my master promised us that thru chanting Nam-myoho-renge-kyo we can absolutely reach enlightenment in this life time! And we can expedite the changing process! That’s the power of our chanting!

If you start chanting Nam-myoho-renge-kyo you’ll reach enlightenment way faster than any methods you suggest. I’ve used the power from my prayers (thru chanting) to overcome obstacles in my everyday life and achieve my goals – many times making impossible into possible… Quite mystical, but also a lot of work”

We asked the gentleman who emailed us to share how much closer he thinks he is to “enlightenment” from chanting and exactly how he has “changed” his karma, but he didn’t respond back to us.

The Buddhist above states that his master “promised” him that he’d reach “enlightenment” if he chanted a certain verse. Chanting is a form of meditation and can be used to become more centered and to focus.

However, if you have further karma to work out and need to come back for other lifetimes (that may have been planned well before this one), all the chanting in the world isn’t going to change that.

As we always say, you cannot erase your karma and bypass the earthly experience needed to balance it.

Sure, you can change how you react to it, which can make the lessons easier to tolerate, but in no way can you erase what your ego doesn’t like or create what your ego wants if it’s not part of your destiny.

Other forms of dogma linked to various belief systems include the following:

*The “Harmonic Convergence,” (a label given, by creative and opportunistic astrologers, to a type of irrelevant astrological planetary alignment that has been occurring regularly for eons) and other “cosmic events” like it; promoters make bogus claims of “unparalleled times” in the earth’s history, promoting their web sites and selling their products, yet the only “unparalleled time” is for them to take advantage of the uneducated, misinformed, and those who are impressed by far-out, “spiritual” sounding, New Age notions; other key phrases commonly used include, “now is a momentous time unlike any other,” and “many facets of the Divine Plan are unfolding simultaneously”

*Men need women in marriage in order to grow spiritually

*Women can’t be spiritual or religious leaders

*Sex before marriage is a sin

*Directives issued by “ascended masters” through “channeled messages;” these are sometimes valid, yet so often bogus and long-winded cosmic fu-fu; obvious red flags are if the “messages” are biased-sounding in any way and/or deny the fact that varying degrees of adversity in people’s lives has a divine purpose

*Getting married and having children is the right thing to do

*Divorce is a sin

*You can “Ascend” or “reach enlightenment” in this life if you consciously choose it

*Because the Universe is changing, we aren’t governed by the laws of karma like we used to be

*You can live forever; all you have to do is “download” your consciousness into a clone of yourself

*Once you die, all your “sins” are forgiven and you get a “get out of jail free” card; you aren’t accountable for your actions in this life

*You have complete free will while incarnated and you can create anything you want in this life; what the mind can conceive, you can achieve

*You have the right to anything you desire; it’s your “birthright”

*Cursing is a sin

*Nudity is a sin

*Making a lot of money is a sin

*Taking a vow of poverty is the right thing to do

*Having a drink once a while will corrupt your spirituality

*Eating meat isn’t very spiritual

*Vegetarianism is the most spiritual diet

*Listening to Rock music is not very spiritual

*Dressing provocatively is a sin

*If you don’t adhere to a particular belief system, you’re doomed

*Select Feng Shui “cures” such as, “Beautify the money area in your house and become a millionaire!;” yes, we value many Feng Shui concepts, but you can’t cheat fate through its methods

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